The Education of American GirlsBrackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
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The Education of American Girls
Brackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
Women -- Education -- United States
The great duty of the educator is to place his wheel so that the stream
will fill its buckets evenly. Far more than you can do directly for your
daughter, will the great social forces, the influences of custom,
society, hereditary tendencies do for her; but you can hold the helm and
keep the rudder firmly fixed towards the pole-star of truth and right;
and so, from all these forces thus combined, and from the overflowing
fullness of a mother's love, always warming and kindling the spirit of
life, however much you may err in details, on the grand basis of
humanity, and in the consummate perfection of her own individuality you
may rear
"A woman nobly planned
To warn, to comfort, and command;
And yet a spirit still and bright,
With something of an angel's light."
EDNA D. CHENEY.
Jamaica Plain, Mass.
[NOTE.--I have said nothing of the father's influence upon the education
of girls, simply because I was not writing on that subject, but I do not
wish to be suspected of undervaluing it. By the beautiful law of
relation between the sexes, a father may often have a finer
understanding of his daughter on some points, than the mother, and one
of the great needs of our home life seems to me to be the more intimate
acquaintance and influence of the father.]
FOOTNOTES:
[28] It is a little curious that Shakespeare even in his age has made
these three finest types of women "reading women." Portia was highly
educated, Miranda the companion of her learned father, and Imogen sits
up late at her book.
[29] The well-educated woman physician should be the friend and
counselor of the mother during this anxious period. It seems a strange
fact, but it is one, nevertheless, that the nearest family tie does not
always lead to perfect freedom and confidence, and a wise stranger can
often give the help that even a mother cannot. The physician should here
be, not the _mediciner_ to disease alone, but the guardian of health;
and the wise woman who has her own experience to guide her, as well as
the learning of the schools, can speak with an authority which will be
respected when that of the mother fails. Quite as often, perhaps, she
will have to shield the daughter from the unwise demands which the
ambitious mother makes upon her, as from her own vanity or love of
pleasure.
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