The sexual enlightenment of children is absolutely necessary for the
following reasons. (_a_) The sexual life conceals many dangers for
the child, and the latter will better be able to guard against those
dangers if he is aware of their existence. No one has the right to
put a sharp knife in a child’s hand without pointing out the dangers
of the weapon. But the forces of the sexual life, when ill-understood
and ill-controlled, are far more powerful and far more dangerous
than the sharpest knife. He who will learn to walk and to run must
risk stumbling and falling, and no one can learn to swim without
swallowing a little water. (_b_) That which is half-concealed is
far more stimulating than that which is revealed. If children are
not properly enlightened concerning the sexual life, they become
accustomed to regard matters of sex solely from the standpoint of
personal desire and personal enjoyment, and to regard the sexual
life and the other sex as something hateful and despicable. (_c_)
If the child receives no enlightenment concerning the sexual life,
its confidence in its teacher and its relatives is necessarily
undermined. How shall a child retain confidence in those who give
it no advice in a matter in which the need of advice is so urgently
felt? Can the child be expected to follow their advice in other
departments of life, when in this department it receives bad advice
or none at all? Can a child give confidence to its elders in other
matters, when in this matter it is fobbed off with lies and fables?
The following arguments are adduced against the sexual enlightenment
of children. (_a_) It is better, supposing that the sexual impulse
has not yet awakened in a child, that nothing should be done to
direct its attention to the sexual life. (_b_) The enlightenment
of children is a very difficult matter, and is, in fact, hardly
practicable.
The former of these arguments is not altogether groundless. But in
present conditions silence is impossible, and it is better that the
child should obtain its information from a pure and trustworthy
source. With regard to the alleged difficulty of effecting the
sexual enlightenment, recent experience shows that the requisite
instruction can be suitably and inconspicuously introduced into the
natural history lessons, and adapted to the age and intelligence of
the child, without any excessive detail being attempted. The stress
has to be laid, not upon enlightenment as to the processes of sexual
conjugation, nor upon detailed instruction as to the development of
the human embryo, but rather upon a mainly hygienic enlightenment
concerning the dangers attendant upon sexual intercourse.
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