The social position of the parents, and the existence or
non-existence of differences in social rank between father and
mother, are circumstances which may exercise a decisive influence
upon the position of an illegitimate child. It might almost be
maintained that the higher the social position of the unmarried
mother, the worse will be the position of her child. For the higher
the social position, the more sinful is sexual indulgence considered
on the part of a woman except under the forms of marriage; the
unmarried mother, when her social position has been a good one, is
apt to be driven from her family, boycotted by society, and abandoned
by her seducer. The greater the difference in social rank between
the two parents, the worse will be the position of the child; when
the father’s position is much better than the mother’s, he usually
refuses to acknowledge the child at all. (_c_) The assumption that
those women who marry after bearing an illegitimate child, marry
in most cases the father of their child, is erroneous. Erroneous
also is the assumption that the position of an illegitimate child
with a step-father is less favourable than the position of the
illegitimate child which has been legitimised through the subsequent
marriage of its true parents. As regards Germany, we learn from
private statistical data, on the one hand, that nearly 50 per cent.
of the women who marry after giving birth to an illegitimate child,
marry another man than the father of that child; and, on the other
hand, that the position of illegitimate children who thus acquire
a step-father is about as good as that of legitimate children in
similar classes of society; and their position is certainly much
better than that of those illegitimate children whose mothers remain
unmarried. We should be led to expect this from the fact that the
step-father in such cases marries the woman because he loves her,
and does not regard the child as a serious objection; moreover,
the records show that such marriages are commonly effected when
illegitimate children are still quite young, so that from its early
youth upwards the child is a member of the family circle. It seems
almost incredible that it should be better for an illegitimate child
for its mother to die than for her to remain alive, but unmarried;
and yet this may very well be the case, for the upbringing the
illegitimate child receives from its own mother is apt to be most
unsatisfactory; but should the mother die, the child will usually be
cared for by the poor-law authorities.
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