The Emblems of Fidelity: A Comedy in LettersAllen, James Lane
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The Emblems of Fidelity: A Comedy in Letters
Allen, James Lane
Authors -- Fiction; Epistolary fiction; Manners and customs -- Fiction
Why my mother bore only daughters will have to be referred to the new
science which takes as its field the forces and the mysteries that
are sovereign between the nuptials and the cradle. But the reason,
as openly laughed about in the family when the family grew old enough
to laugh, as laughed about in the neighbourhood, was this:
Even before marriage my father and my mother had waged a violent
discussion about woman's suffrage. You may not know that in Kentucky
from the first the cause of female suffrage has been upheld by a
strong minority of strong women, a true pioneer movement toward the
nation's future now near. It seems that my father, who was a
brilliant lawyer, always browbeat my mother in argument, overwhelmed
her, crushed her. Unconvinced, in resentful silence, she quietly
rocked on her side of the fireplace and looked deep into the coals.
But regularly when the time came she replied to all his arguments by
presenting him with another suffragette! Throughout her life she
declined even to bear him a son to continue the argument! Her six
daughters--she would gladly have had twelve if she could--were her
triumphant squad for the armies of the great rebellion.
Does this help to explain me to you?
What next I relate about my early life is something that you perhaps
have never given a thought to--children's pets and playthings: it
explains a great deal. Have you ever thought of a vital difference
between country children and town children? Country children more
quickly throw away their dolls, if they have them, and attach their
sympathies to living objects. A child's love of a doll is at best a
sham: a little master-drama of the child's imagination trying to fill
two roles--its own and the role of something which cannot respond.
But a child's love of a living creature, which it chooses as the
object of its love and play and protection, is stimulating, healthful
and kicking with reality: because it is vitalised by reciprocity in
the playmate, now affectionate and now hostile, but always
representing something intensely alive--which is the whole main thing.
We are just beginning to find out that the dramas of childhood are
the playgrounds of life's battlefields. The ones prepare for the
others. A nature that will cling to a rag doll without any return,
will cling to a rag husband without any return. A child's loyalty to
an automaton prepares a woman for endurance of an automaton. Dolls
have been the undoing and the death of many wives.
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