1. First, I say, though the intentions of any person should be ever so
proper and beneficent, on the one hand, or ever so improper and
malevolent, on the other, yet, if they fail in producing their
effects, his merit seems imperfect in the one case, and his demerit
incomplete in the other. Nor is this irregularity of sentiment felt
only by those who are immediately affected by the consequence of any
action. It is felt, in some measure, even by the impartial spectator.
The man who solicits an office for another, without obtaining it, is
regarded as his friend, and seems to deserve his love and affection.
But the man who not only solicits, but procures it, is more peculiarly
considered as his patron and benefactor, and is entitled to his
respect and gratitude. The person obliged, we are apt to think, may,
with some justice, imagine himself on a level with the first: but we
cannot enter into his sentiments, if he does not feel himself inferior
to the second. It is common indeed to say, that we are equally obliged
to the man who has endeavoured to serve, as to him who actually did
so. It is the speech which we constantly make upon every unsuccessful
attempt of this kind; but which, like all other fine speeches, must be
understood with a grain of allowance. The sentiments which a man of
generosity entertains for the friend who fails, may often indeed be
nearly the same with those which he conceives for him who succeeds:
and the more generous he is, the more nearly will those sentiments
approach to an exact level. With the truly generous, to be beloved, to
be esteemed by those whom they themselves think worthy of esteem,
gives more pleasure, and thereby excites more gratitude, than all the
advantages which they can ever expect from those sentiments. When they
lose those advantages therefore, they seem to lose but a trifle, which
is scarce worth regarding. They still however lose something. Their
pleasure therefore, and consequently their gratitude, is not perfectly
complete: and accordingly if, between the friend who fails and the
friend who succeeds, all other circumstances are equal, there will,
even in the noblest and best mind, be some little difference of
affection in favour of him who succeeds. Nay, so unjust are mankind in
this respect, that though the intended benefit should be procured, yet
if it is not procured by the means of a particular benefactor, they
are apt to think that less gratitude is due to the man, who with the
best intentions in the world could do no more than help it a little
forward. As their gratitude is in this case divided among the
different persons who contributed to their pleasure, a smaller share
of it seems due to any one. Such a person, we hear men commonly say,
intended no doubt to serve us; and we really believe exerted himself
to the utmost of his abilities for that purpose. We are not, however,
obliged to him for this benefit; {90} since, had it not been for the
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