have either read of, or heard of, or remember; and you will find that
the misfortunes of by far the greater part of them have arisen from
their not knowing when they were well, when it was proper for them to
sit still and to be contented. The inscription upon the tomb-stone of
the man who had endeavoured to mend a tolerable constitution by taking
physic; '_I was well; I wished to be better; here I am_;' may
generally be applied with great justness to the distress of
disappointed avarice and ambition.
It may be thought a singular, but I believe it to be a just,
observation, that, in the misfortunes which admit of some remedy, the
greater part of men do not either so readily or so universally recover
their natural and usual tranquillity, as in those which plainly admit
of none. In misfortunes of the latter kind, it is chiefly in what may
be called the paroxysm, or in the first attack, that we can discover
any sensible difference between the sentiments and behaviour of the
wise and those of the weak man. In the end, Time, the great and
universal comforter, gradually composes the weak man to the same
degree of tranquillity which a regard to his own dignity, which
manhood teaches the wise man to assume in the beginning. The case of
the man with the wooden {132} leg is an obvious example of this. In
the irreparable misfortunes occasioned by the death of children, or of
friends and relations, even a wise man may for some time indulge
himself in some degree of moderated sorrow. An affectionate, but weak
woman, is often, upon such occasions, almost perfectly distracted.
Time, however, in a longer or shorter period, never fails to compose
the weakest woman to the same degree of tranquillity as the strongest
man. In all the irreparable calamities which affect himself
immediately and directly, a wise man endeavours, from the beginning,
to anticipate and to enjoy before-hand, that tranquillity which he
foresees the course of a few months, or a few years, will certainly
restore to him in the end.
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