The general rules of almost all the virtues, the general rules which
{154} determine what are the offices of prudence, of charity, of
generosity, of gratitude, of friendship, are in many respects loose
and inaccurate, admit of many exceptions, and require so many
modifications, that it is scarce possible to regulate our conduct
entirely by a regard to them. The common proverbial maxims of
prudence, being founded in universal experience, are perhaps the best
general rules which can be given about it. To affect, however, a very
strict and literal adherence to them would evidently be the most
absurd and ridiculous pedantry. Of all the virtues I have just now
mentioned, gratitude is that, perhaps, of which the rules are the most
precise, and admit of the fewest exceptions. That as soon as we can we
should make a return of equal, and if possible of superior, value to
the services we have received, would seem to be a pretty plain rule,
and one which admitted of scarce any exceptions. Upon the most
superficial examination, however, this rule will appear to be in the
highest degree loose and inaccurate, and to admit of ten thousand
exceptions. If your benefactor attended you in your sickness, ought
you to attend him in his? or can you fulfil the obligation of
gratitude, by making a return of a different kind? If you ought to
attend him, how long ought you to attend him? The same time which he
attended you, or longer, and how much longer? If your friend lent you
money in your distress, ought you to lend him money in his? How much
ought you to lend him? When ought you to lend him? Now, or to-morrow,
or next month? And for how long a time? It is evident, that no general
rule can be laid down, by which a precise answer can, in all cases, be
given to any of these questions. The difference between his character
and yours, between his circumstances and yours, may be such, that you
may be perfectly grateful, and justly refuse to lend him a half-penny:
and, on the contrary, you may be willing to lend, or even to give him
ten times the sum which he lent you, and yet justly be accused of the
blackest ingratitude, and of not having fulfilled the hundredth part
of the obligation you lie under. As the duties of gratitude, however,
are perhaps the most sacred of all those which the beneficent virtues
prescribe to us, so the general rules which determine them are, as I
said before, the most accurate. Those which ascertain the actions
required by friendship, humanity, hospitality, generosity, are still
more vague and indeterminate.
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