The proud and the vain man, on the contrary, are constantly
dissatisfied. The one is tormented with indignation at the unjust
superiority, as he thinks it, of other people. The other is in
continual dread of the shame, which, he foresees, would attend upon
the detection of his groundless pretensions. Even the extravagant
pretensions of the man of real magnanimity, though, when supported by
splendid abilities and virtues, and, above all, by good fortune, they
impose upon the multitude, whose applauses he little regards, do not
impose upon those wise men whose approbation he can only value, and
whose esteem he is most anxious to acquire. He feels that they see
through, and suspects that they despise his excessive presumption; and
he often suffers the cruel misfortune of becoming, first the jealous
{233} and secret, and at last the open, furious, and vindictive enemy
of those very persons, whose friendship it would have given him the
greatest happiness to enjoy with unsuspicious security.
Though our dislike to the proud and the vain often disposes us to rank
them rather below than above their proper station, yet, unless we are
provoked by some particular and personal impertinence, we very seldom
venture to use them ill. In common cases, we endeavour, for our own
ease, rather to acquiesce, and, as well as we can, to accommodate
ourselves to their folly. But, to the man who under-rates himself,
unless we have both more discernment and more generosity than belong
to the greater part of men, we seldom fail to do, at least, all the
injustice which he does to himself, and frequently a great deal more.
He is not only more unhappy in his own feelings than either the proud
or the vain, but he is much more liable to every sort of ill-usage
from other people. In almost all cases, it is better to be a little
too proud, than, in any respect, too humble; and, in the sentiment of
self-estimation, some degree of excess seems, both to the person
himself and to the impartial spectator, to be less disagreeable than
any degree of defect of that feeling.
In this, therefore, as well as in every other emotion, passion, and
habit, the degree that is most agreeable to the impartial spectator is
likewise most agreeable to the person himself; and according as either
the excess or the defect is least offensive to the former, so, either
the one or the other is in proportion least disagreeable to the
latter.
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CONCLUSION OF THE SIXTH PART.
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