The Evolution of Marriage and of the FamilyLetourneau, Ch. (Charles)
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The Evolution of Marriage and of the Family
Letourneau, Ch. (Charles)
Families; Marriage
In Kordofan, among the Djebel-Taggale,[749] the great legal motive for
repudiation in all the primitive legislations, sterility, justified
proceedings that were absolutely savage. The ceremony was called the
_nefir_ (drum or trumpet). A woman being apparently sterile, the
husband, before repudiating her, called noisily together all his male
relatives, who, after a feast, all had intimacy with the barren wife.
If this heroic expedient did not result in pregnancy, the husband sold
his wife by auction, agreeing to return to his obliging relatives the
difference, if any, between the first price and the sum she would fetch
in the auction. Extraordinary as this custom of _nefir_ may seem to
us, it is, apart from the final sale, but the repetition with more
shamelessness of analogous practices in India, and even in ancient
Greece, in case of well-proved sterility in the wife.
The Bedouins and the Touaregs in general have nothing comparable to the
_nefir_ of the Djebel-Taggale, but among them the extreme facility and
excessive frequency of repudiations renders marriage nearly illusory.
According to Burckhardt, repudiation is so common with the former that
a man sometimes has fifty wives in succession.[750] With the Touaregs
of the Sahara the wives themselves can demand divorce, and we have
seen that they thus force their husbands to bend to monogamy, in spite
of the Koran and of their polygamic appetites.[751] It seems that in
certain of their tribes the women make it a point of honour to be often
repudiated. Only to have one husband is, in their eyes, a humiliating
thing, and they are heard to say: “Thou art not worth anything; thou
hast neither beauty nor merit; men have disdained thee, and would have
none of thee.”[752]
This is quite in accord with the _laisser aller_ habitual to the
primitive Berbers in regard to marriage. In this respect, however, our
Kabyles of Algeria contrast with the other ethnic groups of their race.
Their conjugal customs are most rigid; neither liberty nor libertinage
exist for the wife amongst them. Their customs in regard to repudiation
and divorce are consequently very curious, and are worth studying in
detail. In Kabyle, marriage is treated literally as a commercial affair
of the most serious kind, especially for the women, who are owned as
things by their husbands. The customs and the _Kanouns_, however,
forbid the exchange of wives, and the husband whose wife has fled from
the conjugal dwelling is forbidden to sell the fugitive except to a man
of the tribe, and even then he is not allowed to have the price.[753]
Still, the Kabyle husband has preserved the right of repudiation, and
this right he alone enjoys, and without restriction.
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