The Evolution of Marriage and of the FamilyLetourneau, Ch. (Charles)
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The Evolution of Marriage and of the Family
Letourneau, Ch. (Charles)
Families; Marriage
It often happens,
therefore, that the Chinese widow is made to marry again, or rather, is
sold again, and this time, also, no one dreams of asking her consent.
The child at the breast, if there is one, is included in the bargain.
In order to moderate the haste of covetous parents, the law has been
obliged to intervene, and prevent the sale of the widow before the
expiration of the time of mourning. The Chinese widow, if she wishes
to escape this traffic in her person, and is without fortune, has no
resource except to become a bonzess. Those widows only whose rank or
riches place them above the common, are able to pass the rest of their
days without being united to a fresh husband;[833] this posthumous
fidelity is much encouraged in China by public opinion, whenever
interest does not forbid it. The betrothed maiden, who may become a
widow before being a wife, is much esteemed if she buries herself for
ever in an enforced sorrow; but naturally, a reciprocal demand is not
made on the betrothed man who may lose his _fiancée_. If the rich widow
who remains inconsolable is much praised, she who refuses to survive
her husband receives greater honour. Tablets are erected in the temples
in memory of young girls who have killed themselves on the tombs of
their betrothed, and twice a year certain mandarins make oblations in
their honour.[834] With much stronger reason is this done for real
widows.
In 1857 the _Pekin Gazette_ published a decree, according a tablet
to the memory of the wife of a mandarin who had poisoned herself on
hearing of the death of her husband in a battle against the rebels.
These suicides of widows are performed in public, with great pomp and
solemnity. In January 1861 two young widows thus committed suicide
at Fou-Chow, in presence of several thousand spectators. Another did
the same at the end of December 1860.[835] It would seem, therefore,
that these suicides are frequent enough even at the present time. From
observations made during the Anglo-French Expedition to China, it
appears that they are generally widows without children or relations
who thus sacrifice themselves; they do it openly and with much
ceremony. A month beforehand, the widow goes in procession through
the town, as has been thus described:--“Two executioners headed the
procession; then came musicians; then men dressed in coarse linen
tunics with hoods, carrying parasols, little pagodas, boxes of
perfumes, and streamers. After them came a third executioner, followed
by a second group bearing poles, surmounted by figures of fantastic
animals. And lastly came a mandarin’s palanquin, surrounded by numerous
servants of both sexes, dressed in mourning, which consisted of grey
linen. In the palanquin was the heroine of the _fête_, a young woman
dressed in red (the imperial colour), and crowned with a blue diadem.
Her red satin robe was ornamented with lace and gold embroidery. This
solemn procession had no other object than to announce the suicide to
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