The Evolution of Marriage and of the FamilyLetourneau, Ch. (Charles)
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The Evolution of Marriage and of the Family
Letourneau, Ch. (Charles)
Families; Marriage
From a consideration of all these facts, we find that the fate of
the widow has varied according to the matrimonial form in use, and
according to the degree of civilisation, but that it has not always
been ameliorated in proportion to the general progress. Laws and
customs have ever been kind to the widower. It has been very different
for the woman, and her position has perhaps been better, from our
point of view, in certain primitive societies, than it became later.
Thus, in the confused state of primitive families, when men lived
either in a freedom almost bordering on promiscuity, or in groups
half polyandric or polygamic, and more especially in polyandrous
countries, there was no actual widowhood, or state of being a widow,
for woman. The disappearance of one of the men with whom she lived
in intimate relations made no great change in her position. Under
a polygamic _régime_ it is quite otherwise; for then the wives are
private property. Their master has nearly always bought them, and their
subjection is very great. Therefore, at the death of their master, they
are treated exactly like things; they follow the fate of the goods, and
pass into the hands of the heir, who can keep or sell them. Sometimes,
however, they are sacrificed in greater or less numbers on the tomb
of the dead husband, whom they must continue to serve and love in the
future life.
Under a monogamic _régime_ societies are generally more civilised, and
the dominating ideas are then the care of property, and sometimes the
perpetuation of the name. The widow cannot inherit, for the property
must not be divided. She is then a most embarrassing incumbrance.
Sometimes she is persuaded to follow still into the next world the
husband who has preceded her thither; this is the most radical
solution. Sometimes her relations marry her again, and obtain a second
price for her; sometimes she is provided for by the levirate.
Traces of these ancestral iniquities are still preserved in our modern
codes, which, though nearly emancipating the widow, push the fanaticism
of consanguinity so far as not to consider her as the relative of her
husband as concerns property. From a social point of view, the whole of
this survey of the treatment of widows is not flattering for humanity.
In short, from a moral point of view, the easy resignation with which
men and women bear widowhood, places mankind, as regards nobility of
sentiment, far below certain species of animals, as, for example, the
Illinois paraquet (_Psittacus Illinois_), for whom widowhood and death
are synonymous, as well for the male as the female. Doubtless it might
be alleged that even in so-called highly civilised societies people do
not marry as a rule from any lofty sentiment; but that is surely a poor
excuse.
FOOTNOTES:
[811] Burchell, _Hist. Univ. des Voy._, t. xxvi. p. 321.--Thompson,
_ibid._, t. xxix. p. 163.
[812] Du Chaillu, _Voy. dans l’Afrique équatoriale_, p. 268.
[813] Clapperton, _Second Voyage_, p. 90.
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