The Expositor's Bible: The Book of ProverbsHorton, Robert F. (Robert Forman)
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The Expositor's Bible: The Book of Proverbs
Horton, Robert F. (Robert Forman)
Bible. Proverbs -- Commentaries
One of the most striking contrasts between the ancient and the modern
world is in the place which is given to Friendship by moralists and
religious teachers. In Aristotle's famous treatise on Ethics two books
out of nine are devoted to the moral bearings of Friendship, and these
books form the climax of the work, and are the natural transition to the
work on Politics, or the science of the State. This central position
given to the subject by the greatest and most systematic teacher of
antiquity, compared with the very subordinate part which friendship
plays in Christian ethics, is calculated to make us reflect and enquire.
Is not the explanation probably this? Our Lord gave a great new
commandment to His disciples, that they should love one another; and
though Christian men have as yet but imperfectly understood what He
meant, or carried out what they have understood, an ideal was created
which far transcended that lower relationship of antiquity. Greek
friendship was to be merged in Christian love. The meaning of such a
change will appear if we remember two characteristics of mere
friendship, on which Aristotle dwells. One is that it is necessarily
based upon selfishness; springing from a wish to realize oneself in the
life of another, fed by the benefit or pleasure derived from the mutual
intercourse, it lies under the necessary limitation that we shall not
wish for our friend a good which would remove him from us, or an
improvement which would raise him too far above us. For the second point
is that friendship can only exist between equals, and the best
friendship is that between good men who stand upon the same level of
virtue. Christian love, on the other hand, springs from a complete
abnegation of Self. It seeks nothing: it gives all. So far from laying
stress upon the equality of conditions, it is never better pleased than
when it can raise another to a position of excellence far surpassing its
own, and instead of seeking its highest satisfaction in intercourse with
its spiritual peers,--the good, the great, the saintly,--it attains its
apotheosis when it is allowed to embrace the weak, the sinful, the
fallen, and to lavish all its Divine resources upon those who may never
be able to repay it even with gratitude.
It is obvious, then, that friendship is on a lower plane than
Christian love, and it marks a great advance in ideal ethics when the
lesser star pales in presence of the greater; but it may be urged with
truth that friendship still has its place in life, and deserves a more
careful attention than it receives. In the individual, as in the race,
friendship may be a prelude and a practice of the nobler and wider
relation. And there is this further reason for trying to understand
the nature of friendship, that it is more than once in the Bible used
as a type and a figure of the relationship which may exist between the
soul and its God.
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