Perhaps it is the frequency of war between towns that keeps the people
within a town, or in a company, generally at peace among themselves. It
is surprising how one can trust workmen or carriers or schoolboys to
divide their food without quarrelling. In this respect they far surpass
white workmen, or white schoolboys. Where we would expect a quarrel no
quarrel occurs.
And then again, just when one has declared that “Africans never
quarrel,” a scandalous quarrel breaks out over some infinitesimal
matter. Individuals, especially women, often have a reputation for
quarrelling. Some towns are notorious. I once visited such a town, where
no white man had been before. I found the stormiest people I ever met in
the jungles. During the two days that I remained in the town there
occurred an almost continuous succession of palavers, each of which
seemed to involve the whole population of the town—men, women and
children. Long after they went into their houses for the night some of
them continued yelling their anger loud enough to be heard by all whom
it concerned. The occasion of a general quarrel the day that I arrived
was this: A certain man’s hen had laid an egg in another man’s house,
and the latter man had kept the egg. The town was rent in twain over the
ownership of that egg. Forcible arguments were presented on either side
but without avail. Before it was settled something else had happened
that required a vigorous exercise of lungs for its adjustment, and the
egg palaver was laid on the table. There was not a spare moment in which
to resume it before I left, and it may be undecided to this day. Even
while I was preaching, a woman in the congregation, sitting immediately
in front of me, continued the palaver, occasionally yelling unladylike
remarks to some other woman whom she evidently supposed to be at the end
of the universe. In all such quarrels there is much of bluff and
bluster, but not so much anger as one might suppose. Such a quarrel, if
anything should appeal to their keen sense of the ridiculous during its
progress, might break up in a laugh.
When two Fang women engage in a prolonged quarrel—usually sitting
immediately within the door of their respective houses and cursing each
other in shrill tones, heard all over the town—the people sometimes
become impatient and demand that they shall come out into the street and
fight. I have witnessed such a fight. They prepare for it by throwing
off even the shred of clothing that they wear. They fight more like men
than women—if it be true that women usually scratch and pull each
other’s hair when they fight. When one of them is repeatedly thrown to
the ground she confesses defeat. At least it may be said to their credit
that this usually ends the matter; and the next day they may be as
friendly as ever.
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