The Fleet: Its Rivers, Prison, and MarriagesAshton, John
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The Fleet: Its Rivers, Prison, and Marriages
Ashton, John
Fleet Prison (London, England); Fleet, River (England)
This short synopsis of the Marriage law in England is necessary, in
order to understand the subject of Fleet Marriages, which, however,
were not all disreputable. The Fleet, as we have seen, had a Chapel of
its own; and in old times, a Chaplain--so that Marriages might well be
celebrated there, in as proper and dignified a manner as elsewhere.
And, we must bear in mind that early in the seventeenth century, the
prisoners were of a very different stamp to those of the latter half of
the eighteenth century, until the demolition of the prison. Therefore
we see no impropriety in the first Marriage known on record--which
is that of Mr. Geo. Lester, then a prisoner in the Fleet, to a woman
of fortune one Mistress Babbington. This is mentioned in a letter of
September, 1613, from Alderman Lowe to Lady Hicks, and may be found
in the Lansdowne MSS. 93-17. He writes: "Now I am to enform you that
an ancyentt acquayntence of y^e and myne is yesterday marryed in the
Fleete, one Mr. George Lester, and hath maryed M^{ris} Babbington, M^r
Thomas Fanshawe mother in lawe. Itt is sayd she is a woman of goode
wealthe, so as nowe the man wyll be able to lyve and mayntayne hymself
in pryson, for hether unto he hath byne in poor estate. I praye God he
be nott encoryged by his marige to do as becher doth, I meane to troble
his frynds in lawe, but I hope he wyll have a better conscyence and
more honestye than the other men hathe."
Towards the middle of the seventeenth century clandestine, and
irregular marriage was prevalent, and it is easily accounted for. A
public marriage had come to be a very expensive affair. There was a
festival, which lasted several days, during which open house had to be
kept; there were the Marriage Settlements, presents, pin money, music,
and what not--so that the binding of their Children in the holy Estate
of Matrimony was a serious matter to parents; who probably preferred
giving the young couple the money that otherwise would go in useless
waste and profusion. So they used to get married quietly: a custom
which Pepys reprobates in the marriage of the daughter of Sir William
Penn to Mr. Anthony Lowther. "No friends, but two or three relations of
his and hers." The bride was married in "palterly clothes, and nothing
new but a bracelet that her servant had given her." And he further
says, remarking on the meanness of the whole affair, "One wonder I
observed to day, that there was no musique in the morning to call up
our new married people, which is very mean, methinks."
Misson, who visited England in the reign of William III., speaks of
these private marriages.
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