2. Here we must consider other, related qualities. The office of
intelligence is to adjust man to a complex world, to furnish
pathways to a goal which instinct perhaps chooses. Suppose a goal
reached,--say marriage is entered upon with the one that we think
is to give us that satisfaction and happiness we long for. The
marriage does not so result, either because we have expected too
much, or because the partner falls below a reasonable
expectation, or because contradictory elements in the natures of
the wedded pair cannot be reconciled. Unity is not reached;
disunion results, almost, let us say, from the very start. What
happens?
Many adjustments may take place. A crude one is that the pair,
after much quarreling, decide to separate or become divorced, or
on a still cruder, ignoble level, one or the other runs away,
deserts the family. A common adjustment, of an anti-social kind,
forms the basis of much of modern and ancient literature; the
partners seek compensation elsewhere, enter into illicit love
affairs and maintain a dual existence which rarely is peaceful or
happy. Indeed, the nature of the situation, with outraged
conscience and fear of exposure, prevents happiness.
But there are those who in such a situation do what is known as
"make the best of it." They avoid quarrels, they keep up the
pretense of affection, they seek to discover the good qualities
in the mate; they are, as we say, resigned to the situation. To
be resigned is to accept an evil with calmness and equanimity,
but without energy. Resignation and courage are closely related,
though the former is a rather pallid member of the family. The
poor and the miserable everywhere practise this virtue; the
church has raised it perforce to the most needed of qualities; it
is a sort of policy of nonresistance to the evils of the world
and one's own lot.
But resignation represents only one type of legitimate
adjustment, of sublimation. By sublimation is meant the process
of using the energy of a repressed desire and purpose for some
"higher" end. Thus in the case of domestic unhappiness the man
may plunge himself deeply into work and even be unconscious of
the source of his energy. This type of adjustment is thus a form
of compensation and is seen everywhere. In the case of many a
woman who gives herself over to her children without stint you
may find this sublimation against the disappearance of romance,
even if no actual unhappiness exists. Where a woman is childless,
perforce and not per will, an intense communal activity often
develops, leading to good if that activity is intelligent,
leading to harm if it is not. For sublimation develops the crank
and pest as well as the reformer. In every half-baked reform
movement you find those who are striving to sublimate for a
thwarted instinct or purpose.[1]
[1] The historian, Higginson, put it well when he said
substantially, "There is a fringe of insanity around all reform."
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