Since wishing brings a pleasurable excitement, it has its
dangers, in the daydream where wishes are fulfilled without
effort. Power, glory, beauty and admiration are obtained; the
ugly Duckling becomes the Swan, Cinderella becomes the Princess,
Jack kills the Giant and is honored by all men; the girl becomes
the beauty and heroine of romance; the boy becomes the Hero,
taking over power, wealth and beauty as his due. The world of
romance is largely the wish-world, as is the most of the stage.
The happy ending is our wish-fulfillment, and only the
sophisticated and highly cultured object to it. Moulding the
world to the heart's desire has been the principal business of
stage, novel and song.
In the normal relations of life, the wish is the beginning of
will, as something definitely related to a future goal. He who
wishes finds his way to planning and to patient endeavor, IF
training, circumstances and essential character meet. To wish
much is the first step in acquiring much,--but only the first
step. For many it is almost the only step, and in the popular
phrase these have a "wishbone in the place of a backbone." They
are the daydreamers, the inveterate readers of novels, who carry
into adult life what is relatively normal in the child. The
introspective are this latter type; rarely indeed do the
objective personalities spend much time in wishing. Undoubtedly
it is from the introspective that the wish as a symbol and worker
of power gained its influence and meaning. This transformation of
the wish to a power is found in all primitive thought, in the
power of the blessing and the curse, in the delusions of certain
of the insane who build up the belief in their greatness out of
the wish to be great; and in our days New Thought and kindred
beliefs are modernized forms of this ancient fallacy.
It is a comforting thought to those who seek an optimistic point
of view that most men wish to do right. Very few, indeed,
deliberately wish to do wrong. But the difficulty lies in this,
that this wish to do right camouflages all their wishes, no
matter what their essential character. Thus the contestants on
either side of any controversy color as right their opposing
wishes, and cruelties even if they burn people at the stake for
heresy, kill and ruin, degrade and cheat, lie and steal. Thus has
arisen the dictum, "The end justifies the means." The good
desired hallows the methods used, and all kinds of evil have
resulted. Practical wisdom believes that up to a certain point
you must seek your purpose with all the methods at hand. But the
temptation to go farther always operates; a man starts to do
something a little underhanded in behalf of his noble wish and
finds himself committed to conduct unqualifiedly evil.
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