How does this unhappy state arise? In the first place, from the
very start of life people differ in the quality of eagerness.
There is a wide variability in these qualities. Of two infants
one will call lustily for whatever he wants, show great glee in
anticipating, great eagerness in seeking, and a high degree of
satisfaction when his desire is gratified. And another will be
lackadaisical in his appetite, whimsical, "hard to please" and
much more difficult to keep pleased. Fatigue will strip the
second child of the capacity to eat and sleep, to say nothing of
his desires for social pleasures, whereas it will only dampen the
zeal and eagerness of the first child. There is a hearty simple
type of person who is naively eager and enthusiastic, full of
desire, passion and enthusiasm, who finds joy and satisfaction in
simple things, whose purposes do not grow stale or monotonous;
there is a finicky type, easily displeased and dissatisfied,
laying weight on trifles, easily made anhedonic, victims of any
reduction in their own energy (which is on the whole low) or of
any disagreeable event. True, these sensitive folk are creators
of beauty and the esthetic, but also they are the victims of the
malady we are here discussing.
Aside from this temperament, training plays its part. I think it
a crime against childhood to make its joys complex or
sophisticated. Too much adult company and adult amusements are
destructive of desire and satisfaction to the child. A boy or
girl whose wishes are at once gratified gets none of the pleasure
of effort and misses one of the essential lessons of life.--that
pleasure and satisfaction must come from the chase and not from
the quarry, from the struggle and effort as well as from the
goal. Montaigne, that wise skeptic, lays much homely emphasis on
this, as indeed all wise men do. But too great a struggle, too
desperate an effort, exhausts, and as a runner lies panting and
motionless at the tape, so we all have seen men reach a desired
place after untold privation and sacrifice and who then found
that there seemed to be no energy, no zeal or desire, no
satisfaction left for them. The too eager and enthusiastic are
exposed, like all the overemotional, to great recessions, great
ebbs, in the volume of their feeling and feel for a time the
direst pain in all experience, the death in life of anhedonia.
After an illness, particularly influenza, when recovery has
seemingly taken place, there develops a lack of energy feeling
and the whole syndrome of anhedonia which lasts until the subtle
damage done by the disease passes off. Half or more of the
"nervousness" in the world is based on actual physical trouble,
and the rest relates to temperament.
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