People seek the strangest roads to the feeling of superiority.
From that classical imbecile who burnt down the Temple of Diana
to the crop of young girls who invent tales of white slavery in
order to stand in the public eye as conspicuous victims,
notoriety has been mistaken for fame by those desperate for
public attention. To be superior some way, even if only in crime
and foolishness, brings about an immense amount of laughable and
deplorable conduct to which only a Juvenal could do justice. The
world yields to superiority such immense tribute that to obtain
recognition as superior becomes a dominant motive. How that
superiority is to be reached presents great difficulties, and the
problem is solved according to the character of the individual.
At the same time that we seek superiority we seek to be liked, to
be esteemed, to be respected. These are not the same things, but
are sufficiently alike in principle to be classed together. With
some the desire to be liked becomes a motive that ruins firmness
of purpose and success, as in the well-known "good
fellow,"--accommodating, obliging and friendly, who sacrifices
achievement to this minor form of fellowship. On a larger plane
there is the writer or artist who sacrifices his best capacities
in order to please the popular fancy, seeks popularity rather
than greatness, for it is seldom that the two coincide. Back of
many a man's "respectability" is the fear of being disliked or
discredited by his group. TO BE RESPECTABLE, TO LIVE SO THAT
NEITHER THE NEIGHBORS NOR ONE'S OWN RATHER UNCRITICAL CONSCIENCE
CAN CRITICIZE, IS PERHAPS THE MOST COMMON AIM IN LIFE. There are
some who are all things to all men, merely out of the desire to
be agreeable, who find it easy to agree with any opinion, because
they have not the courage to be disliked. Even the greatest men
yield to the desire to be admired and liked, though the test of
greatness is unpopularity.
For there never can be a real and lasting democ-racy in belief,
opinion and ideal. The mass must always lag behind the leaders,
since it takes a generation or two for the ideas of the old
leaders to permeate any society. Now and then a great leader
finds a great following in his own lifetime, but his leadership
rarely involves a new principle. There will always be a few
ground breakers, behind them a few straggling followers, and far,
far behind, the great mass of mankind.
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