The Galaxy, April, 1877: Vol. XXIII.—April, 1877.—No. 4.Various
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The Galaxy, April, 1877: Vol. XXIII.—April, 1877.—No. 4.
Various
American literature -- Periodicals
It is nevertheless true that the men in England are on the whole more
attractive to the eye than the women, and that the women in "America"
are generally much more attractive than the men. The cause of this is a
fact very distinctive of the social surface of the two countries. I
have spoken of the "set up" and the bearing of the men in England. It
is very remarkable, and is far superior to anything of the kind that is
found even among the most cultivated people in this country, except in
comparatively rare individual cases. But in England it is common; it is
the rule. There, from the middle classes up, a slovenly man is a rare
exception. There men are almost universally neat and tidy, and they
carry themselves with a conscious self-respect. They do not slouch.
They do not go about, even in the morning, with coats unbuttoned,
skirts flying, and their hands in their overcoat pockets. They dress
soberly, quietly, with manly simplicity, but almost always in good
taste, and with notable neatness. They are manly looking men, with an
air of conscious manhood. Moreover, in England the man is still
recognized as the superior. England has been called the purgatory of
horses and the paradise of women. But that saying came from the
continent of Europe, where women, except in the very highest and most
cultivated classes, are not treated with that tenderness and
consideration for their weakness and their womanly functions which I am
inclined to think is somewhat peculiar to the English race. I should
call England the paradise of men; for there the world is made for them;
and women are happy in making it so. An Englishman who is the head of a
family is not only master of his house, but of the whole household. His
will is recognized as the law of that household. No one thinks of
disputing it. It is not deemed unreasonable that in the house which he
provides and keeps up his comfort and his convenience should be first
considered, or that, as he is responsible for his household both to the
law and to society, authority should go with responsibility. And
yet--perhaps for this very reason--wives there have the household
affairs more absolutely in their hands than they have here. A man whose
absolute authority is acknowledged, practically as well as
theoretically, is very ready to make concessions and to rid himself of
what at any time he may assume. Real monarchs, like the Czars or like
the Tudors, are careless of the protection of royal etiquette. The
consciousness of this acknowledged or rather unquestioned superiority
shows itself in the men's faces, and in their bearing, simple and
unpretending as their manner is. Besides all this, men in England (I am
leaving out of consideration the lower classes) show the effect of
cultivation, of breeding, of discipline. Even in the middle classes
they are well informed, and, what is of more importance to the present
question, they have been taught to behave themselves respectfully to
others.
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