The Galaxy, June 1877: Vol. XXIII.—June, 1877.—No. 6.Various
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The Galaxy, June 1877: Vol. XXIII.—June, 1877.—No. 6.
Various
American literature -- Periodicals
--And with it all there is such a foolish, deplorable, ruinous neglect
of the proper instruction of young women. They are taught heaps of
things that are of no possible use to them, and they are not taught
those which concern them most nearly. Here is this miserable
"Throop-Price" affair, as it is called, in which a young lady belonging
to a family of some culture and social position is actually taken
before a clergyman and half married before she knows it; but suspecting
that something is wrong, and being assured by the clergyman that the
ceremony he is performing solemnizes a real, binding marriage, she
flies off, but is immediately induced to go before the Mayor, and is
there married out of hand when she meant to do no such thing. It seems
incredible; but it is actually true. We make, as we should do, an awful
fuss about marriage, and a good marriage is, as it should be, the
desire of a young woman's heart, and yet in regard to all the
essentials of marriage as well as the duties and personal relations of
married life, we leave them in ignorance. There would seem to be but
two ways about this matter: one, the French way of keeping young girls
in seclusion and absolute ignorance, and then marrying them off as a
sort of business transaction--an arrangement that does not suit our
social life, and which, it must be confessed, does not tend to produce
the best state of morals in France; the other to give young girls
reasonable liberty, under the general supervision of their parents and
family, but in this case to arm them with knowledge, to let them know
what marriage is legally, ceremonially, socially, and physiologically.
This is a safe way, and the only safe one. Let this be done, and then
if a girl "goes wrong" in any way, it is merely one of those
unavoidable misfortunes which some of us have to encounter.
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