But if this be true, it follows that a man cannot be insulted, which is
an absurdity; for men are insulted, as we all know--and we are happy if
we do not know it by experience. Moreover, men are insulted more
frequently where the "code of honor" does not prevail than where it
does; for that code is of use; and if it does not teach good manners, it
certainly does curb abuse. The question to be decided is whether in the
teaching of manners and the curbing of abuse by the alternative and
arbitrament of bloody combat we are not paying too high a price for what
we gain. To consider the example which is the occasion of our remark. A
man is met in the street by another with whom he has been upon terms of
social intercourse, and is there publicly whipped. He faces his
assailant, resists, but is overcome because the assailant is the
stronger and the more dexterous. What shall he do? Submit quietly? That
may be Christian conduct; but whether it is good public policy, to say
nothing more, may at least be questioned; for it would place the greater
part of the community at the mercy of the strong brawling bullies. Two
courses are open to a person so assailed--either to place the matter in
the hands of the law, in a civil or a criminal suit, or to challenge the
assailant. In most cases it may be admitted that the former course is
the wiser and the better course. Where mere protection against personal
injury is sought a police justice and a police officer are the effective
as well as the lawful means. But there is something else to be
considered. The mere personal injury may be slight, and there may be no
fear of its repetition, and yet there is a wrong done that may rankle
deeper than a wound. Personal indignity is something that most men of
character and spirit feel more than bodily pain or than loss of money or
of property. It is a sentimental grievance, and therefore one which the
law cannot provide against or punish. It cannot be estimated in damages;
none the less, therefore, but rather the more, does the man who suffers
it take it to heart; none the less, therefore, but rather the more, do
gentlemen set up barriers against it which, although invisible, and not
even expressed, if indeed they are expressible in words, are more
forbidding in their frown, more difficult of assault than the regular
bulwarks of the law. It must be repeated that this wrong is not to be
measured by the bodily injury or the bodily pain that is inflicted. Two
men may be boxing or fencing, and one may severely injure the other; but
no sense of wrong accompanies the injury, and that not because no injury
was intended, but because no offence was meant; whereas the flirt of a
kid glove across the face, or a word, may inflict a wrong that if not
atoned for or expiated, may rankle through a man's whole life. To
attempt to set aside or to do away with this feeling is quite useless:
as well attempt to set aside or to do away with human nature. It is this
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