The Gaming Table: Its Votaries and Victims. Volume 1 (of 2)Steinmetz, Andrew
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The Gaming Table: Its Votaries and Victims. Volume 1 (of 2)
Steinmetz, Andrew
Gambling
But a truce to such insults against those who beautify the earth;
_THEIR_ vices cannot excuse ours. It is we who have depraved them by
associating them with excesses which are repugnant to their delicacy.
The contagion, however, has not affected all of them. Among our
'plebeians,' and even among nobility, many women remind us of the
modesty and courage of those ancient republican matrons, who, so to
speak, founded, the manners and morals of their country; and among all
classes of the community there are thousands who inspire their husbands
with generous impulses in the battle of life, either by cheering words
of comfort, or by that mute eloquence of duties well fulfilled, which
nothing can resist if we are worthy of the name of men. How many a
gambler has been reformed by the tender appeals of a good and devoted
wife. 'Venerable women!' one of them exclaims, 'in whatever rank Heaven
has placed you, receive my homage.' The gentleness of your souls smooths
down the roughness of ours and checks its violence. Without your virtues
what would we be? Without YOU, my dear wife, what would have become of
me? You beheld the beginning and the end of the gaming fury in me, which
I now detest; and it is not to me, but to you alone, that the victory
must be ascribed.'(95)
(95) Dusaulx, _De la Passion du Jeu_.
A very pretty anecdote is told of such a wife and a gaming husband.
In order to simplify the signs of loss and gain, so as not to be
overburdened with the weight of gold and silver, the French players used
to carry the representation of their fortunes in small boxes, more or
less elegant. A lady (who else could have thought of such a device?),
trembling for the fate of her husband, made him a present of one of
these dread boxes. This little master-piece of conjugal and maternal
affection represented a wife in the attitude of supplication, and
weeping children, seeming to say to their father--_THINK OF US!_....
It is, therefore, only with the view of avenging good and honourable
women, that I now proceed to speak of those who have disgraced their
sex.
I have already described a remarkable gamestress--the Persian Queen
Parysatis.(96)
(96) Chapter III.
There were no gamestresses among the Greeks; and the Roman women were
always too much occupied with their domestic affairs to find time for
play. What will our modern ladies think, when I state that the Emperor
Augustus scarcely wore a garment which had not been woven by his wife,
his sister, or grand-daughters.(97)
(97) Veste non temere alia quam domestica usus est, ab uxore et filia
nepotibusque confecta. Suet. in Vita Augusti.
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