The ghost of Charlotte Cray, and other storiesMarryat, Florence
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The ghost of Charlotte Cray, and other stories
Marryat, Florence
English fiction -- 19th century; Ghost stories, English; Short stories, English
But the idea as to what constitutes starvation has risen with the
times. A little while ago, it used to be the clergyman with a large
family on eighty pounds a-year: a twelvemonth back it rose to the
celebrated “three hundred;” and but a few weeks since I heard a lady
gravely affirm that any one who contemplated marriage now-a-days with
an income of less than two thousand, must be either a madman or a
fool.
Knowing my incompetence for the task, I have no intention in this
paper of trying to decide on how small a sum it is possible to
maintain a family in this luxurious age. I only wish to say a few
words upon what I consider to be the secret of the economy which has
need to be exercised in these days in the largest household as well as
in the smallest.
The order of her household is a true woman’s battle-field, and the
better she can manage it, the more comforts she can command, and the
more regularity she can enforce upon a small income and with few
servants, the greater is the triumph of her victory. If means are
unlimited the triumph is lost; and the woman who has a thousand a-year
for her housekeeping, and is content to let her husband enjoy no more
luxury upon it than his friend who spends five hundred, allowing the
surplus to be wasted for want of a little thought or supervision, is
not a true woman or a good one. For if prodigality is not a sin in
itself, it arises from the indulgence of a combination of sins,
amongst which selfishness holds chief rank.
Take the care of her household out of a woman’s hands and what remains
for her to do? As a generality she would sit in idleness, for these
are not the days when mothers nurse and look after their own children,
and, thanks to the sewing machine, the toil of needlework is over,
even in the poorest families.
She would probably take up a novel the first thing in the morning,
thereby unfitting herself for any solid work for the remainder of the
day; or she would waste her time on fancy-work, or unnecessary
letter-writing, or on anything but what sensible people who know they
will be called to account hereafter for the use they have made of the
brains God has given them would do.
And, as a rule, I believe few women would like to be lightened of
their trouble in this respect. The sex is uncommonly fond of a “little
brief authority,” and even those who have every aid at their command,
generally choose to dabble in their housekeeping affairs. And it is
just this “dabbling” which does harm, which often increases the
expenses instead of lessening them.
I am not a second Mrs. Warren; I have no ambition to try and teach my
sex how to manage their husbands, houses and children on two hundred
a-year, by wiping out the bread-pan every morning with a clean cloth;
and making one stick of wood do the duty of two by placing it in the
oven to dry the night before.
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