The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 02 of 12)Frazer, James George
Religion
The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 02 of 12)
Frazer, James George
Magic; Mythology; Religion; Superstition
The explanation has been suggested by Mr. W. Crooke (_Journal of the
Anthropological Institute_, xxviii. (1899) p. 243). There are other
facts, however, which point to a different explanation, namely, that
the practice is intended to avert possible evil consequences from
bride or bridegroom. For example, “the superstition regarding a man’s
third marriage, prevalent in Barār and, I believe in other parts of
India, is not despised by the Vēlamās. A third marriage is unlucky.
Should a man marry a third wife, it matters not whether his former
wives be alive or not, evil will befall either him or that wife. No
father would give his girl to a man whose third wife she would be. A
man therefore, who has twice entered the married state and wishes to
mate yet once again, cannot obtain as a third wife any one who has
both the wit and the tongue to say no; a tree has neither, so to a
tree he is married. I have not been able to discover why the tree, or
rather shrub, called in Marāthī _ru’i_ and in Hindūstānī _madar_
(_Asclepias gigantea_), is invariably the victim selected in Barār,
nor do I know whether the shrub is similarly favoured in other parts
of India. The ceremony consists in the binding of a _mangal sūtra_
round the selected shrub, by which the bridegroom sits, while
turmeric-dyed rice (_akṣata_) is thrown over both him and the shrub.
This is the whole of the simple ceremony. He has gone through his
unlucky third marriage, and any lady whom he may favour after this
will be his fourth wife” (Captain Wolseley Haig, “Notes on the Vēlamā
Caste in Bārār,” _Journal of the Asiatic Society of Bengal_, lxx. part
iii. (1901) p. 28). Again, the Vellalas of Southern India “observe a
curious custom (derived from Brāhmans) with regard to marriage, which
is not unknown in other communities. A man marrying a second wife
after the death of his first has to marry a plantain tree, and cut it
down before tying the _tāli_, and, in case of a third marriage, a man
has to tie a _tāli_ first to the erukkan (arka: _Calotropis gigantea_)
plant. The idea is that second and fourth wives do not prosper, and
the tree and the plant are accordingly made to take their places.”
(Mr. Hemingway, quoted by E. Thurston, _Castes and Tribes of Southern
India_, vii. 387). Tying the _tali_ to the bride is the common Hindoo
symbol of marriage, like giving the ring with us. As to these Indian
marriages to trees see further my _Totemism and Exogamy_, i. 32 _sq._,
iv. 210 _sqq._; _Panjab Notes and Queries_, ii. § 252, iii. §§ 12, 90,
562, iv. § 396; _North Indian Notes and Queries_, i. § 110; D. C. J.
Ibbetson, _Settlement Report of the Karnal District_, p. 155; H. H.
Risley, _Tribes and Castes of Bengal_, i. 531; Capt. E. C. Luard, in
_Census of India, 1901_, vol. xix. 76; W. Crooke, _Tribes and Castes
of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh_, ii. 363; _id._, _Popular
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