The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 06 of 12)Frazer, James George
Religion
The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 06 of 12)
Frazer, James George
Magic; Mythology; Religion; Superstition
of living parents rather than orphans would naturally be chosen to pour
the living water over the foundations, and so to lend something of their
own vitality or endurance to a building that was designed to last for
ever.
(M220) On the same principle we can easily understand why the children of
living parents should be especially chosen to perform certain offices at
marriage. The motive of such a choice may be a wish to ensure by
sympathetic magic the life of the newly wedded pair and of their
offspring. Thus at Roman marriages the bride was escorted to her new home
by three boys whose parents were all living. Two of the boys held her, and
the third carried a torch of buckthorn or hawthorn in front of her,(637)
probably for the purpose of averting the powers of evil; for buckthorn or
hawthorn was credited with this magical virtue.(638) At marriages in
ancient Athens a boy whose parents were both living used to wear a wreath
of thorns and acorns and to carry about a winnowing-fan full of loaves,
crying, “I have escaped the bad, I have found the better.”(639) In modern
Greece on the Sunday before a marriage the bridegroom sends to the bride
the wedding cake by the hands of a boy, both of whose parents must be
living. The messenger takes great care not to stumble or to injure the
cake, for to do either would be a very bad omen. He may not enter the
bride’s house till she has taken the cake from him. For this purpose he
lays it down on the threshold of the door, and then both of them, the boy
and the bride, rush at it and try to seize the greater part of the cake.
And when cattle are being slaughtered for the marriage festivities, the
first beast killed for the bride’s house must be killed by a youth whose
parents are both alive. Further, a son of living parents must solemnly
fetch the water with which the bridegroom’s head is ceremonially washed by
women before marriage. And on the day after the marriage bride and
bridegroom go in procession to the well or spring from which they are
henceforth to fetch their water. The bride greets the spring, drinks of
the water from the hollow of her hand, and throws money and food into it.
Then follows a dance, accompanied by a song, round about the spring.
Lastly, a lad whose parents are both living draws water from the spring in
a special vessel and carries it to the house of the bridal pair without
speaking a word: this “unspoken water,” as it is called, is regarded as
peculiarly holy and wholesome. When the young couple return from the
spring, they fill their mouths with the “unspoken water” and try to spirt
it on each other inside the door of the house.(640) In Albania, when women
are baking cakes for a wedding, the first to put hand to the dough must be
a maiden whose parents are both alive and who has brothers, the more the
better; for only such a girl is deemed lucky. And when the bride has
dismounted from her horse at the bridegroom’s door, a small boy whose
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