The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The dancing is extremely modest, as the dancer is fully clothed, and it
is the graceful, languorous poses of her slim body, the waving of her
arms heavily laden with bracelets, and the slow moving, gliding steps
that keep time to the tinkle of the anklets, that charm her admirers.
There is a proverb that says, “Without the jingling of the nautch girl’s
anklets, a dwelling-place does not become pure.”
CHAPTER VI
INDIAN HOME LIFE
Although the women are supposed to have no religious standing and are
considered unfit to read the Vedas or touch the consecrated gods, still
their entire life is influenced by religion or superstition, and the
religion and superstition of the Eastern woman, of whatever land, is so
inextricably entwined, that it is hard to tell where one leaves off and
the other begins. Like her sisters of China and Egypt, she is afraid of
the evil eye. She firmly believes that if her jewels, her dress, or her
children are looked upon with jealous or covetous eyes, much sorrow will
come to her, and she has many charms and ceremonies with which to
counteract the baneful influence of spiteful persons. It is never wise
for a visitor to regard a baby too closely or to admire its jewels or
clothing openly, as, even if the mother is one of the advanced minority,
instinct will assert itself, and deep within her heart, bred there by
centuries of tradition, will be a little feeling that something _might_
happen to her dear one. Quite likely, when the unwise caller departs,
the mother will make a lamp of kneaded rice flour and fill it with oil
or clarified butter, which, when lighted and passed round the baby’s
head, will remove the dreaded evil.
The Hindu woman’s life is ruled by omens to a far greater extent than is
the life of the woman of the Western world. If she is starting on a
visit to a friend, it is a very bad sign for her to meet a widow, any
one carrying a new pot, a bundle of firewood, a pariah, a lame man, two
men quarrelling, a leper—in fact, there are about a dozen things she
should avoid, or else be under the necessity of returning to her home
and saying a few prayers before daring to start on her journey again. If
she should sneeze once, it is most unfortunate, and should be followed
by a second in order to avert the evil, but if the second sneeze is
followed by others, the more the better, it is a most certain sign that
her most ardent wishes will soon be granted. When one yawns it is polite
to snap the fingers and say, “Govinda, Govinda,” as many believe that
the life may leave the body while yawning, and to avert this calamity
from a baby the mother snaps her fingers and murmurs, “Krishna,
Krishna,” in its tiny ears.
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