The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
Many of the ceremonies in the home originated in sanitary laws, which
would not have been obeyed unless the people were made to believe that
they were of divine origin. At a certain time of the year when smallpox
is rife, and the epidemic has passed, there is a worship of the
“Mother,” which requires the house to be thoroughly cleaned and
purified, all the old vessels broken, all old clothing burned or placed
in the sun for a certain time, before the women are permitted to go to
the temple to worship their favourite goddess. There is another spring
feast, when the women go down to the water dressed in yellow, and send
small lighted lamps down the stream to the spring goddess. At the feast
of the serpents the villagers take offerings to the sand-hills, and pour
milk and honey into the holes where the snakes are supposed to dwell,
asking protection of these gods of wisdom, who especially guard the eyes
of their worshippers. At another feast the women take red water and
sprinkle it upon each other, rejoicing over the slaying of the giant god
of evil. The girls take part in a pretty feast in the fall, when they
decorate their little brothers with flowers and garland the houses, and
at night light innumerable little lamps, making a village look like a
miniature fairyland.
The village women appear rather sullen, but when known they are found to
be as happy as is the wife of the average working man. If there is no
drought drying up the crops, if no disease comes to the cattle, if the
moneylender is not too avaricious, if a few pennies can be saved to buy
bracelets from the bangle-man at the annual festival, and if the gods do
not disgrace her by sending too many daughters, she is happy. Yet the
village woman and her family are always but half a step in advance of
the waiting wolf; famine comes with swiftness, and quick deaths from
plagues to hundreds of thousands of these peasant people, who constitute
nine-tenths of the population of India.
The life of the women in the small towns and villages is like life in
another world compared to that led by the women in the large cities of
Calcutta or Bombay or Madras. Here the Indian lady seems to be trying to
lose her national characteristics, and Indian society is very
disappointing to a visitor from the West who wishes to see something of
the life lived by the lady of India. It seems to be merely a copy of the
life of the English society woman, and her day is filled with teas,
society concerts, and receptions. Their homes are thoroughly English in
every department, their drawing-rooms are filled with English
bric-à-brac, they go to the entertainments in most luxurious motors;
their children, dressed in European clothes, are brought down to see the
guest by an English governess, and English is the language of the home.
Many of the Indian women are members of clubs, musical societies, and
are taking active part in the charities for the benefit of their people.
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