The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
There are many thousands of pounds of gold that go into India
each year and disappear. The officials say it is turned into jewellery
for these wives and daughters of India’s great middle class, who seem
never too poor to have a touch of gold or silver upon the persons of
their womenfolk.
The village wife is relieved of the necessity of providing clothing for
the children, because until they are seven or eight years old an amulet
string or a silver anklet completes their wardrobe. There are many of
these little brown bodies around every doorway, looking like
dark-skinned cupids. One rarely sees a child in India with a bad skin,
which perhaps is due to the oil-baths which they receive in early
childhood. Mothers bathe their babies in oil, then wash it off with a
vegetable soap, leaving the skin soft and shining as satin. This is a
luxury indulged in by older people also, and the giving of oils for the
bath is a favourite present among friends.
In the shade of the porch is often seen a cradle, a very simple affair
made of four pieces of wood with a hammock of cloth held between them.
Around the top of the cloth is arranged baby’s toys so that he may lie
and amuse himself, which is quite necessary where the mother has as many
household duties to attend to as the Indian farmer’s wife. In places
where the woman is working in the field, the baby may be seen wrapped in
a hammock-like affair and tied to the limb of a tree; and it is a common
practice among labouring women, I am told, to give the babies a drug to
keep them quiet while the mothers work. Opium is very generally used in
India, especially among the higher classes, although forbidden by both
Hindu and the Mohammedan religion. It is supposed to invigorate the
aged, and an Indian told me that he thoroughly believed that all men
after they pass the age of fifty were better for the moderate use of
opium.
The wife of the village man or peasant is not “purdah nashim,” or
secluded, as is the wife of the rich man. She takes her share in the
agricultural work, besides carrying water from the village well, making
the cakes of fuel and plastering them against the side of the house to
dry, grinding the meal, husking the rice, washing the clothing, and
cooking the meals. Yet with all her work the monotony of her life is
broken by many feasts and ceremonies in which she takes a part. Each
district and temple has its own particular fête day, and there are many
family feasts where work is given up at the time of special rejoicing.
Relatives and friends meet together, the houses are decorated, bright
saris are brought forth, and the time is spent in pleasure and
merry-making. There are eighteen obligatory feasts in the year for the
orthodox Hindu, but only a few of the principal ones are celebrated.
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