The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The new-comer has a succession of ceremonies to celebrate his arrival
into this world of sorrows. On the twelfth day he is named; on a later
day the first bracelets are put upon his arms and tiny anklets upon his
ankles. When he is six months old he is given his first food. Five kinds
of syrup are made, and the baby is given a taste of each one, and rice
is put into his mouth. The father offers sacrifice to the household
gods, the first loin-cloth is tied on the little man, the women sing,
music is played, and feasting is indulged in by all. Each event is made
the occasion of an elaborate feast, to which friends and relatives are
invited and presents are given to the guests and to the priests. In
fact, the priests seem to be omnipresent at all occasions in a Hindu
family. A woman whom I was visiting was complaining of the many
ceremonies that had taken place in her family during the past year, and
she said that she was thoroughly tired of the worry and expense
connected with them. I said: “But who benefits by these elaborate feasts
and rituals that give so much trouble and cause such an outlay in
presents and money?” She said wearily: “Who benefits? Why, the priests
and the Brahmans. They always reap their harvest, whether we are born,
marry, or die. If we are wicked, we must ask them to intercede for us;
if we are good, we must ask them to thank the gods for us; and if we
die, they must help us across the river of fire. We can do nothing of
ourselves; they are our taskmasters with ever-open palm.”
If the newborn son survives the first two years—and the mortality of
babies is frightful, especially in the cities—he will quite likely have
the opportunity of having the tonsure made for the first time, and this
event is only rivalled by the entertainment given when, whether boy or
girl, the ears are pierced by the goldsmith and it is announced that
babyhood is passed. These endless feasts would be ruinous to the poor
Hindu were it not for the fact that it is practically the only time when
he entertains his friends. There is no promiscuous dinner-giving as
among the Western people; friends are invited only in connection with
some religious rite or to inaugurate a special event in the family.
If a member of one of the higher castes, the mother who has watched her
baby grow from babyhood into boyhood, looks forward to the most solemn
and important event in his life, the ceremony called “the introduction
to knowledge,” when he is invested with the sacred cord. This ceremony
lasts from four to five days and is nearly as expensive as a wedding.
The father must provide many pieces of cotton cloth and small gold and
silver coins to be given as presents to the guests. He must have
unlimited food and a great collection of pottery, because, as at a
marriage feast, the dishes are broken after their first use.
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