The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The question of the education of the daughter is not so much a matter of
thought to the middle-class Mohammedan or Hindu mother, because at the
time when, if she were in Western lands, she would be taking her books
under her arm and starting for her first day at school, in India she is
getting married. She may, if in a village, attend the school with her
brothers until she is eight or nine years old, but rarely, except in the
highest classes, does the little girl have a longer opportunity for
study. In the cities the rich families are sending their daughters to
private schools, and the Oriental home is the happy hunting ground for
the English governess, who is engaged to teach, not only the knowledge
to be found in books but also the etiquette to be observed in English
society, as it seems to be the main object in life of the educated
Indian, both man and woman, to be more English in manner than are the
English themselves.
In all the better class homes the piano is seen, and seldom now does the
daughter of the house play upon the veena or any instrument of Indian
music. In Calcutta I went to a reception given by a great Indian lady.
With the exception of the costumes worn by the pretty dark-eyed
Bengalis, and the absence of men, I would have thought I was in an
English house at an afternoon tea. English was spoken by nearly every
one, the music was European, the refreshments were from an English
caterer, and there was no distinct note of India in all the afternoon’s
ceremonies. Most of the ladies wore high-heeled French slippers, and
many of them had their beautifully draped saris twined around bodies
held in place by the French corset, which must have been most
uncomfortable for these people, used to untrammelled freedom in regard
to their dress.
Times are changing so fast in India that it is hard to say “This is a
custom” or “That is a custom.” Education is opening the eyes of the
younger generation of Indian women to the fallacy of many of the
old-time rites and superstitions. Still, many of the mothers are
conservative and feel keenly their daughter’s departure from the beliefs
of her day, yet the pressure is so strong that many of these
conservative mothers are sending their daughters to the schools, both
mission and Government, where in the former they avail themselves
eagerly of the education, but are not influenced by the religious
teaching. One devout Mohammedan mother said to me: “Yes, I send my
daughter to a mission school, as it is the best in our town. I feel that
they cannot hurt her, as she has had a good religious training in the
home.”
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