The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
(her son's name, 12 years old) has not yet got a morsel, his belly has
shrunk, and the school time is come; if late, his master will make him
stand." Radhamoney, the old mother, or _ghini_, sent for the cook, and
enquired if the rice were ready. "Yes, _ma_, Hurree Baboo came into the
cook room half an hour ago, and I asked him to take his meal; _chotta
ma_ (second wife) prevented him, because I _first_ gave the rice to
Comul who was so long ill." "Where is Hurree now?" enquired the old
lady. The maid-servant replied "_Chotta ma_ gave him a few pice and told
him to go to his school, though he could have eaten rice if he liked."
"Let Grish return home," added the old lady, "and I will tell him to
send me to Benares without delay; I am sick of your incessant broils;
for giving Comul rice _first_ you two _bous_ fell into a quarrel, and
cursed each other so fearfully that you, _burra bou_ (first wife), ate
the head of Hurree, and you, _chotta bou_ (second wife), ate the head of
Comul's husband."[108]
It was evening, and Grish, the son, returned home from office. Before he
had time to take off his office dress, the old mother, impatient to tell
him what had occurred during the day, and with tears in her eyes, thus
addressed him: "You, my son, have brought the greatest curse on yourself
by marrying two wives; to-day the whole family has been starving, and
why? because Comul, suffering from fever for the last eight days, had
got a little rice this morning, and she ate _first_; _chotta bou_,
therefore, prevented her son from eating anything, and sent the little
_bacha_ to the school without rice. From what _pajee_ (mean) families
have you brought these two females? I can no longer remain in the house.
Under the slightest pretext, like infamous wenches, they not only brawl
but curse each other and the son and son-in-law into the bargain. Can
Luckhee dwell in such a house? send me to Benares instantly, I can no
longer live in such a hell of a place. Your wives have made it a regular
hell." The son consoles the old mother, promising that everything would
be done according to her wish, begging her at the same time to eat
something, and adding that he does not mind whether his two wives eat or
not. After going through the evening service, he slept outside that
night, pondering what should be done for the future quiet of the family.
Next day he removed the first wife to her father's house, because the
second wife is always the _Zuburdust_, imagining that one hand can never
make a clap. But he was sadly mistaken, the deserted wife, continually
brooding over her misfortune, at length resolved to put an end to her
existence, and accordingly one night took an overdose of opium, and bade
a final adieu to the world.
The above story is founded on real life and should serve as a warning to
those who under the impulse of passion blindly run into a state of
polygamy, which is undoubtedly one of the greatest domestic evils among
the natives.
FOOTNOTES:
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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