The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
The evils of widowhood are not only confined to the endurance of
accumulated hardships, and self-denials enough to rend asunder the
tenderest chord of humanity, but they likewise extend to unlawful
connections, and the perpetration of another crime, that of abortion,
which is no less revolting in enormity than infanticide itself. Many
respectable families, which are otherwise esteemed for their meritorious
actions, have more or less sunk in honor from this indelible stigma; a
few have even lost their caste and status in society from the above
cause. In the primitive state of Hindoo society, when every female other
than a wife was regarded either as a mother or sister according to age,
irregular intercourse was almost unknown, but in these days of
libertinism perfect purity of life is rarely known. Our divine lawgiver,
in view to the interests of humanity and female honor, ought to have
made proper provision by lending his authority and sanction to a system
of widow remarriage within a reasonable period of life. Some such edict
would have been alike honorable to our venerable sage, and beneficial to
those who are morally and socially most deeply interested in it; but
unfortunately his cruel dicta, running counter to the fundamental
principles of virtue and morality, have necessarily engendered a rank
crop of evils, undermining the very foundation of human happiness.
The benevolent exertions of that high priest of Nature, Pundit Isswara
Chunder Vidyasagar, Baboo Keshub Chunder Sen, the Brahmo apostle, and
other Hindoo reformers, to promote the cause of widow marriage in
particular, and female emancipation in general, have not, it is sad to
contemplate, been attended with the measure of success they deserve,
simply because the state of Hindoo society is not yet ripe for the
innovation. I am, however, sanguine in my expectation that at no very
distant future the progress of enlightenment will ultimately bring about
the consummation so devoutly to be wished for. It is for the advanced
pioneers to endeavour to remove the incrustation which age and learning
have formed and tradition and custom enshrined with jealous and sedulous
care. Until this is done, a Hindoo widow must continue to mourn her lot
amidst the denunciations of a heartless world. Sighs will never cease
flowing from her heart so long as she finds herself deprived of the
master charm of life. She is now cast amongst the dregs and tatters of
humanity. Bereft of the _substance_ of what endears life to a female,
she is constrained to cleave to the _shadow_, which is destined to leave
her when she leaves the light of life. Losing all hope of worldly
enjoyments, she deposits the treasures of her heart in the sanctuary of
religion, convinced that to sell the world for the life to come is
profitable. It is terrible to contemplate the awful amount of physical
and mental suffering with all its varied complications, to which she is
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