The History of Lynn, Vol. 1 [of 2]Richards, William
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The History of Lynn, Vol. 1 [of 2]
Richards, William
Fens, The (England); King's Lynn (England)
Of the customs of the ancient inhabitants of Lynn, and of the
Anglo-Saxons in general, relating to _matrimony_, the following appear to
have been some of the most remarkable and striking.—Every unmarried woman
was supposed to have a guardian, or owner: the virgin belonged to her
father, brother, uncle, or nearest male relation; the widow claimed the
same protection from her husband’s male relatives; the lover was obliged
to buy his mistress, of her guardian, by a gift, the amount of which was
settled by a law, that set a higher price on the maid, by one half, than
on the relict. If unadvisedly the wooer wedded the lady without the
guardian’s consent, her property and goods were still the property of
that guardian, and an injury offered to her was to be atoned for to him,
and not to the spouse. At the wedding, the guardian delivered up his
ward to the husband, a friend of whom had previously avowed himself the
guarantee of a proper provision for the bride in case of his death. At
the feast which followed, the usual and large presents of gold, silver,
arms, cloths, household stuff, &c. made by the invited friends and
relations, formed the portion of the bride, who had beside, from custom
immemorial, a right to ask of her mate, on the next sun-rising after her
nuptials, a gift, to serve her as pin-money. As to what related to
_divorces_, among these people, we meet with no particular account. In
the _education_ of their children, they only sought to render them
dauntless, and apt for the two most important occupations of their future
lives, war and the chase. It was a usual trial of a child’s courage to
place him on the sloping roof of a building, and if, without screaming or
apparent terror, he held fast, it was deemed a favourable omen, and he
was pronounced a _brave boy_.
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