The History of Miss Betsy ThoughtlessHaywood, Eliza Fowler
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The History of Miss Betsy Thoughtless
Haywood, Eliza Fowler
Abused wives -- Fiction; Bildungsromans; Didactic fiction; England -- Fiction; Married women -- Fiction
It was with an extreme concern I heard what happened on your
account at Oxford; and hope you have so well reflected on the
danger you were in, the consequences that attended it, and how much
worse might probably have ensued, as to be ever since more
circumspect and careful with what company you trust yourself. I am
far from reproaching you with the effects of an accident altogether
unforeseen, and impossible to be even guessed at by you; but would
beg you to keep always in your mind, that what has been, may, some
time or other, be again; and that repeated inadvertencies may make
Heaven weary of continuing it's protection. But, my dear Miss
Betsy, it is not in my apprehensions of your own conduct, that the
greatest part of my fear for you consists: the world, alas! and
more particularly the place you live in, affords but too many
wretches, of both sexes, who make it their business to entrap
unwary innocence; and the most fair pretences are often the cover
to the most foul designs! There are so many daily instances of the
strictest caution not being always a sufficient security against
the snares laid for our destruction, that I look on it as half a
miracle, when a young woman, handsome, and exposed as you are,
escapes unprejudiced, either in her virtue or reputation. Consider,
my dear child, you who have no tender mother, whose precepts and
example might keep you steady in the paths of prudence: no father,
whose authority might awe the daring libertine from any injurious
attack; and are but too much mistress of yourself. In fine, thus
environed with temptations, I see no real defence for you but in a
good husband. I have ever condemned rushing too early into
marriage, and of risking, for the sake of one convenience, the
want, perhaps, of a thousand others; but when an offer happens to
be made, equally honourable and advantageous, and which affords an
almost assured prospect of every thing necessary to compleat the
happiness of that state, it cannot be too soon in life accepted. I
hear, with pleasure, that an offer, such as I have been describing,
is now presented to you; and it would give me an adequate concern
to hear that you had rejected it. I need not tell you I mean Mr.
Trueworth; for though there be many others who make their addresses
to you on the same score, yet I am entirely ignorant of every thing
relating to them; but I am well assured, not only by your brother's
testimony, but by several gentlemen of this county, that in the
fortune, person, and amiable qualities, of that gentleman, are
comprized all that you either can or ought to wish in a husband.
Trifle not, then, with a heart so deserving of you; scruple not to
become a wife, when merit, such as his, invites, and so many
reasons concur to urge you to consent.
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