The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Wives are purchased at various sums, from twenty to five hundred
rubles, in money or flocks, according to beauty and other advantages.
Among some of the pastoral tribes a good healthy girl may be obtained
for two or three rubles. Their numbers are regulated by the same laws
that prevail in other Mohammedan countries; and, as usual, the poorer
classes seldom have more than one wife. But when the first grows old,
or ceases to please, they take a second. Merchants who are obliged to
travel a good deal, generally maintain houses at various places, with
a wife at each.
The wedding ceremonies bear a general resemblance to those already
described. When the stipulated price has been paid, the priest, in the
presence of assembled friends, asks the young people if they will wed
one another, repeats a prayer, and bestows the nuptial blessing. Among
the Tartars of the Casan, all the female friends of the bride meet at
her father’s house the day previous to the marriage, and deplore with
her the approaching change in her condition, while two men sing songs
that treat of the happiness of married life.
The Katschinzes, when they wish for a bride, send an agent to the
girl’s father, to present him with brandy and a pipe of tobacco,
and retire instantly without speaking. If, when he returns sometime
afterward, the presents remain untouched, it is a refusal; but if one
has been drank and the other smoked, it is acceptance. At the end of
six months, the lover himself comes to repeat the same ceremony; the
price is stipulated, and the wedding appointed. Sometimes several
months elapse, before a day deemed sufficiently lucky arrives; but
however long the probation may be, the young people must not indulge
in any thing like courtship. A girl would be disgraced, if she were to
give her intended husband the slightest reason to suppose she preferred
him to any other man.
When a young man is too poor to purchase a bride, he often agrees to
serve her father four or five years. If a richer or more fortunate
rival present himself before the term of service expires, the first
suitor can merely demand wages for his work. If the girl dies in the
mean time, the bargain is transferred to her sister; and if she had no
sister, the lover loses his labor. If the intended bridegroom should
die, his future bride becomes one of his father’s wives.
But if none of these misfortunes occur, and the wedding takes place,
the bride must never see her father-in-law after the day of the
marriage; should she chance to meet him, she must fall on the ground
and conceal her face till he has passed. Her other relatives visit her
when they please. In case of any dissatisfaction, the husband sends his
wife back to her parents, and retains the children as his property.
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