The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Before the introduction of Mohammedanism into Java, women often held
the highest offices of government; and when the chief of a district
dies, it is even now not uncommon for the widow to retain the authority
that belonged to her deceased husband. Polygamy is permitted by
religion and law, but the common people seldom have more than one
wife. The sovereign of Java does not by custom have more than four,
nor the chiefs more than two; but they generally have a greater or
less number of mistresses. It is extremely easy to obtain divorces
and form new connections; but during the continuance of the relation,
the matrimonial vow is said in general to be faithfully observed. If
a woman is dissatisfied with her husband, she can obtain divorce by
paying a certain sum of money established by custom. The lower class
pay about twenty dollars, and the higher pay fifty. The husband can
refuse to consent, but he seldom does so, because it is considered
dishonorable to live with a reluctant companion. It is not uncommon
to see a woman who has divorced three or four husbands before she is
thirty years old. Some individuals change their mates ten or twelve
times. A man may at any time obtain separation by making suitable
provision for his wife’s support; and this is no difficult matter in a
country where food is very abundant, and shelter almost unnecessary.
The Javanese have very little of the Asiatic jealousy of women; but
when they believe themselves wronged, they pursue the offender with
the most implacable revenge. The prince of Madura, during times of
political commotion, sought refuge with his family on board a Dutch
ship. The captain, according to the custom of his country, greeted the
princess with a kiss. She screamed, and her husband immediately stabbed
him to the heart.
There are three kinds of marriages in Java. The first, which is most
common, is where the rank of the parties is equal, or the bridegroom
superior to the bride; the second is where the wife’s station is much
above that of the husband; and the third is a sort of half-marriage,
the offspring of which are not allowed to be upon an entire equality
with the other children. In the two first kinds of marriage, the
ceremonies are alike; but in the last there is no ceremony at all. The
first wife is always at the head of the family; on this account, no
father is willing to bestow his daughter upon a man of his own rank for
a second or third wife.
Girls are generally disposed of in marriage at a very early age. An
unmarried woman of twenty-two years old is almost unheard of in Java.
The wedding ceremonies are similar to those in neighboring countries.
The betrothment is arranged by relatives, and consists in the offering
and accepting of gifts.
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