The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The husband receives no other dowry with his wife than the presents
she obtains before the ceremony. As soon as the young couple are
married, they are shut up in an apartment by themselves for three
days; a servant brings them necessary food, while their friends are
entertained with great merriment by the bride’s father. At the end
of this time they are liberated, receive congratulations, and are
conducted to their future home. The women of Celebes are distinguished
for virtue and modesty. They take an active part in business, and are
frequently raised to the throne, though the government is elective. At
public festivals they appear freely among men, and those in authority
discuss affairs of state in their councils. In token of equality, the
husband and wife always eat from the same dish; he from the right
side, and she from the left. The wife of the chief of Lipukaski was
considered one of the first politicians in Celebes. One day she rode
out among the warriors of her tribe, and upbraiding them with tardiness
in giving battle, she demanded a spear, that she might herself give
them an example. Stimulated by her reproof, they went forth and gained
the victory. This woman was said to have a countenance expressive
of great intelligence and firmness. In many parts of the Eastern
Archipelago women have been intrusted with sovereign power; and it is
singular that this occurs most frequently where the government is most
turbulent. The passion for gaming, so common in the other islands,
prevails in Celebes. Wives, children, and personal freedom are often
staked, and quarrels arise which occasion deadly hostility between
families. The fine demanded by law is twenty dollars for the murder of
a man, and thirty for a woman. The women of Celebes, and of the other
Molucca islands, wear hats of prodigious size, six or seven feet in
diameter. Infants are plentifully rubbed with oil, and boys are never
nursed longer than a year, from the idea that it would injure their
understandings.
* * * * *
In Amboyna, as in almost every part of the East, a man purchases a
bride by a certain sum of money given to the parents. They have an
unbounded admiration for very young girls, and a great abhorrence of
old women. The girls are not often trusted away from their mothers;
but courtship is carried on by means of nosegays, or plates of fruit,
mutually exchanged, and arranged in such a manner as to signify the
various degrees of love or disapprobation.
In some of the neighboring islands, when a young man is too bashful to
speak his love, he seizes the first opportunity he can find of sitting
near the object of his affection, and tying his garment to hers. If she
allows him to finish the knot, and neither cuts nor loosens it, she
thereby gives her consent to the marriage. If she merely loosens it, he
is at liberty to try his luck again, at a more propitious moment; but
if she cuts it, there is an end of hope.
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