The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The next day the young wife is bathed by her female relations, who
braid her hair, stain her nails red, and put on a new dress. She visits
in the camp all day, and in the evening is conducted back to her
husband’s tent. If her father be destitute, his son-in-law generally
assists him with a willing heart; and if the bridegroom be poor, her
father does all he can to enable him to increase his flocks and herds.
If a wife does not become the mother of a boy, she may be divorced with
consent of the elders of the tribe, which is always granted; in this
case she is at liberty to marry again. The mother of many sons is held
in the highest respect, and is never suffered to perform any menial
office. If a woman is very unhappy with her husband, she goes back to
her parents; and though he may try to persuade her to live with him
again, he cannot compel her to do it. If she persist in her dislike,
she is even at liberty to marry another. But if she has a child,
especially if it be a boy, this permission is not granted; should she
stay with her parents more than eight days, under such circumstances,
she would be liable to be put to death. Women do not take the name of
their husbands, but always retain the one they received in infancy. The
birth of a son is attended with the greatest rejoicings. The mother,
by way of expressing her delight, blackens her face, for the space of
forty days. On the birth of a girl, she blackens only half her face,
for twenty days.
When a Moor sets out on a journey, his wife follows him about twenty
paces from the dwelling; she then throws after him the stone used to
drive the tent-pegs into the ground, and wherever it stops, she buries
it until his return.
The Moors, like their Arab brethren, are exceedingly hospitable. A
traveller is always sure of some refreshment, for his host would rather
go without food himself than refuse it to a guest. If the master be
absent, his wife, or slave, goes out to meet the stranger, asks him to
stop at twenty paces from the tent, brings milk for him to drink, sees
that his camels are unloaded, and furnishes him with mats and awnings
to erect a temporary shelter for himself. If the guest be a man of
rank, or one who has friends in the tribe, a sheep or an ox is killed
in honor of his arrival. The wife cooks the meat, separating the fat,
which is served up raw. The visiter’s share is placed on a small mat,
carried by a slave, but always handed to him by the master himself, if
he be at home.
The Moors plunder all travellers except those who are protected by the
sacred rites of hospitality. Even the law authorizes theft in the night
time; and on this account the women are very careful to convey into the
tents every article of property before dark.
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