The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Siamese bathe very frequently, and anoint themselves with perfumes.
The interior of their houses is likewise very neat. They seldom wear
any ornament about the head, except ear-rings; and none but the young
wear bracelets. Their common clothing is very slight; consisting merely
of a large piece of calico, tied above the hips, and falling to the
feet.
Women enjoy a considerable degree of freedom. When a young man sends
his female friends to ask a damsel in marriage, her parents consult
their daughter’s inclination; and if they approve the match, magicians
are immediately called to cast nativities and consult the stars for
omens. The lover pays two or three visits to his betrothed, bringing
presents of fruit and betel. At the third visit, the relations sign
contracts, and pay the dowry. A few days after, the priests sprinkle
the young couple with consecrated water, and repeat prayers. The
bride’s parents keep up feasting, dancing, and music for several
days; and sometimes months elapse before the young people commence
house-keeping for themselves.
The Siamese laws allow of several wives, but the wealthy only avail
themselves of this indulgence. Superior privileges are conferred on the
first wife, and upon her children. The children of the others are not
allowed to use the familiar appellation of “father,” but are required
to say, “Mr. father.” The first wife may be divorced, but cannot be
sold, like the others. In case of divorce, she may claim the first,
third, fifth child, and so on, through the odd numbers. The husband has
a right to all the even numbers; of course, the mother sometimes has a
larger share than the father.
All the property left by a husband belongs to the first wife. She
likewise inherits his authority; but she cannot sell the even-number
children, who in case of division would have belonged to their father.
The poorer classes work on the land, and transact business for their
husbands, during the half of each year, which they are obliged to
spend in the service of a despotic prince. They take great care of
their children, especially of their daughters, and are generally very
virtuous and modest. The Siamese, unlike their neighbors of Cochin
China, are very scrupulous concerning the character of their women,
with which they conceive their own honor to be intimately connected.
Their laws are very severe. An unfaithful wife is exposed alive to
tigers, or sold as a slave.
These people have a singular religious ceremony, which reminds one of
the Jewish scape-goat. An infamous woman is carried about on a barrow,
accompanied with trumpets and hautboys. Every one curses her, and
pelts her with dirt. She is then carried out of the town, left among
bushes and thorns, and forbidden ever to return to the city. They have
a superstition that this ceremony will avert all threatened evils from
them to her.
The Siamese priests are not allowed to marry, on pain of being burnt to
death.
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