The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The emperor Kien-Long having fallen in love with a beautiful young girl
at Sanchou-Fou, his empress hung herself. One of her sons was very
much embarrassed to know what course to pursue. To go into mourning
might seem like an insult to his father; and to omit it would be
disrespectful to the memory of his mother. By the advice of his tutor,
he appeared with a full dress over a suit of mourning. This enraged the
emperor so much, that he gave his son a violent kick, which occasioned
his death a few days after.
Every morning, at daybreak, a Chinese son is required to present his
father and mother with water to wash their hands, and stand ready to
perform any trifling services they may require. Filial obedience is
carried to such an extreme, that a son is bound to divorce his wife
if she be displeasing to his parents. Even the emperor himself is not
exonerated from these obligations. When the mother of Kien-Long died,
all the mandarins were ordered to go into mourning for seventeen days,
and to abstain from all amusements. No person of any rank was allowed
to shave for the space of one hundred days, or to partake of any
entertainment. For one month, people were not permitted to marry; and
in the most crowded streets all classes refrained from speaking, except
in whispers. The will of that princess is a curious document:
“Though unworthy, high Heaven has bestowed upon me its choicest favors.
I received from the blessed ancestors of my husband the most valuable
of all gifts, when I brought into the world a son destined to succeed
him. The emperor, always full of tenderness and respect for his mother,
has omitted nothing that lay in his power to render my life happy. He
never failed to come every morning and evening either to salute me,
or to see me eat. He was constantly contriving means to gratify my
heart. He danced in my presence, recited the poems he composed, showed
me paintings which no hand but his own had touched, and decorated my
apartments with them himself. All these attentions penetrated to the
bottom of my soul. I forgot my age, and my old frame was filled with
new vigor.”
At the close of the long and magnificent procession which followed this
empress to her grave, were pages bearing her mirrors, boxes, jewels,
fans, &c.; and last of all the walking stick on which she had leaned in
her old age, was carried along with peculiar veneration.
The Chinese books are full of anecdotes of filial piety. “The mother of
Ouang-Ouei-Yuen had ever expressed great apprehensions of thunder, and
when she saw it approaching always requested her son not to leave her.
After her death, whenever he heard a storm coming on, he hastened to
his mother’s grave, and said softly, ‘I am here, mother.’”
Another story is told of a young woman whose mother-in-law, being
without teeth, could not take food without great exertion. Her dutiful
step-daughter nursed her several years from her own breast often rising
in the night to afford her nourishment.
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