The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The general manners of the modern Greeks are the same, whether they
live in Constantinople or the various islands of the Archipelago. In
cities, women rarely appear in public, even at churches, till they
are married. In their houses certain rooms are appropriated to the
ladies and their attendants, to carry on embroidery and other feminine
employments. The men have separate apartments. Female slaves are
treated with great gentleness. Some adopt them when very young, and
call them “children of their souls.” Like the Greeks of old, some
trusty female slave is often the nurse, confidant, and friend of her
mistress. A woman of any consideration never appears abroad without
one servant at least; and those who affect display, are attended by an
innumerable troop. The Greek ladies present their hand to be kissed
by their children or inferiors. Young girls salute each other in a
singular manner; they hold each other by the ears while they kiss
the eyes. The wealthy Greeks, like the Turks, are exceedingly fond
of expensive jewels. The ladies often dress themselves in the most
splendid manner, without any expectation of seeing company, merely to
indulge their own fancy, or that of their husbands. Their marriage
ceremonies in many respects resemble those of their classic ancestors.
The evening preceding the wedding, the bride is conducted to the bath,
accompanied by music and attendants. The next day, she proceeds with
slow and solemn pace to the church, adorned with all the jewels she
can obtain, and covered with a rose-colored veil. A blazing torch is
carried before her, and a long procession follows. At the altar both
bride and bridegroom are crowned with flowers, which are frequently
exchanged in the course of the ceremony. They have likewise two wedding
rings, which are exchanged and re-exchanged several times. Immediately
after the benediction, a cup of wine is offered to the young couple,
and afterward to the witnesses of the marriage. When the bride arrives
at her new home, she is lifted over the threshold, it being considered
ominous for her feet to touch it. She likewise walks over a sieve
covered with a carpet. She is seated on a sofa in the corner of the
room, and there expected to remain downcast and immovable, amid all the
music, and dancing, and gayety around her. Every guest, as he comes
into the room, passes by her, and throws a piece of money in her lap,
which she deposits in a small silver box, without moving her lips, or
raising her eyes. The festival is kept up three days, during which time
the bride does not utter a word except it be in a whisper to some of
her female attendants. Marriages usually take place on Sunday, and the
bride is not allowed to leave the house until the Sunday following.
Custom demands that some dowry should be in readiness, and even a
beautiful woman is more acceptable for not being entirely destitute.
The Albanian girls carry their marriage portions on their scarlet
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