The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
In the cold climates of Lapland and Iceland, the bride, instead
of garlands, wears a crown of silver gilt. In Russia, the priest
places silver crowns on the heads of both the young couple; at the
marriages of people of rank, these crowns are held over their heads
by attendants. In some districts, the peasant bride wears a wreath
of wormwood; and in that country of perpetual flagellation, it is an
appropriate emblem of her unhappy lot. After the nuptial benediction
is pronounced, it is likewise customary to throw a handful of hops on
her head, with the wish that she may prove as fruitful as that vine. In
some Russian villages, it is customary, before the bridal procession go
to church, for a choir of young girls to chant this epithalamium: “A
falcon flies in pursuit of a dove. Charming dove, are you ready? Your
mate is come to seek you.” The bride timidly answers, “Yes;” and the
procession moves forward. After the wedding ceremony is performed, the
bridegroom has a right to give his bride “the kiss of love,” holding
her by the ears. The Sclavonian women, for a week previous to their
marriage, are expected to kiss every man who visits them, in token of
general respect and friendship for the sex. Some nations consider the
ceremony of betrothal nearly as solemn as that of marriage. Among the
Tyrolese, the father of the lover proceeds to the house of the beloved,
accompanied by his younger sons, carrying baskets of honey-comb and
aromatic plants. When he arrives, she and all her friends rise and
salute him. “Welcome, my friend,” says the head of the family; “what
brings thee among us?” He replies, “As thou art a father, let me put a
question to thy daughter.” He then steps up to the maiden, kisses her
forehead, and says: “God bless thee, lovely girl, who remindest me of
the days of my youth. I have a son; he loves thee. Wilt thou make my
declining years happy?” If the damsel is too much embarrassed to reply,
her mother, who is the confidant of her sentiments, answers for her.
The young man is then introduced, and receives a kiss from his new
parents, and his future bride. Sometimes, in order to try the sincerity
of their son’s attachment, the old people will not allow him to be
formally betrothed to the object of his choice, till he has made a tour
into Switzerland, Bavaria, or Italy, to sell some of the productions
of the country. “Go, earn thy wife,” say they; “a good husband must be
able to earn bread for his family.” The lover almost invariably returns
unchanged, bringing the proceeds of his industry, with the ribbons
still waving from his hat, which had been placed there by the idol of
his heart.
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