The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Indian bridegroom generally pays his father-in-law for his bride;
and even in their primitive form of society, he who can offer a large
price is most likely to be acceptable to parents. Handsome Indian
girls are not unfrequently disposed of contrary to their inclinations.
They are not permitted to marry relations within so near a degree of
consanguinity as cousins. Suicide is common among the women of these
savage tribes. When thwarted in love, or driven to desperation by ill
usage, they frequently hang themselves to the branch of a tree, rush
into the sea, or throw themselves from a precipice. The men very rarely
destroy their own lives. They seldom have more than one wife at a time;
but they change just when they please, interchange with each other, and
lend to visiters, without scandal. When a wife becomes old, a younger
one is often purchased; and the first one may either kill herself, or
tamely submit to be the drudge of the family. In several tribes, the
pieces of stick given to the witnesses at the marriage are burnt, in
sign of divorce. But, generally speaking, new connections are formed
without any formal dissolution of the old one.
When the sachem of Saugus married the daughter of the chief of
Pennakook, a great feast was given, and the bride and bridegroom
escorted to their dwelling by some of the most honorable men of her
father’s tribe, who were feasted several days at the expense of the
husband. Some time after, the wife expressed a wish to visit her
father, and was permitted to do so, with a select escort to accompany
her. When she desired to return, the old chief sent to the sachem to
come and take her away. This offended the young man’s pride. “I sent
her to you in a manner that became a chief,” he replied; “and now that
she intends to return to me, I expect the same from you.” The chief of
Pennakook considered this an insolent message. He would not allow his
daughter to return unless her husband sent for her; the sachem would
not submit to the terms; and the young couple saw each other no more.
The Indians pride themselves on stoicism, and at no period of their
history have been addicted to voluptuousness. Their sense of manliness
and dignity prevents them from being immodest. In this respect, their
deportment towards women is abundantly more praiseworthy than that of
civilized nations.
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