The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
For several centuries after the fall of Rome, the state of society
was exceedingly unsettled and turbulent. The priests and the powerful
barons were continually at variance with the kings, neither of them
being willing to consent to a division of power; and the settlement
of the Saracens, or Moors, in Spain, produced a spirit of ferocious
discord in religion. The daughters of princes and nobles lived
in perpetual danger; for bold, ambitious men, who coveted their
kingdoms, or their fortunes, often stormed their castles, carried
them off, and compelled them to marry, without pretending to consult
their inclinations. Thus the Saxon heiresses were divided among the
retainers of William the Conqueror. The annals of Scotland furnish a
curious instance of these warlike marriages. Sir William Scott made
an incursion upon the territories of Murray of Elibank, and was taken
prisoner. Murray, in accordance with the barbarous spirit of the times,
sentenced his enemy to immediate death; but his wife said, “Hout, na,
mon! Would ye hang the winsome young laird of Harden, when ye have
three ill-favored daughters to marry?” “Right,” answered the baron
of Elibank; “he shall either marry our mickle-mouthed Meg, or strap
for it.” The prisoner at first resisted the proposal; but he finally
preferred “mickle-mouthed Meg” to the halter; and the union thus
inauspiciously formed proved exceedingly happy.
The father or guardian of the bride generally gave her to the
bridegroom with these words: “I give thee ----, my daughter, or my
ward, to have the keeping of the keys of thy house, and one third of
the money thou art possessed of, or shall possess hereafter, and to
enjoy all the other rights appointed to wives by law.” The bridegroom
generally bestowed handsome presents on the bride, and she received a
dowry proportioned to her father’s wealth.
The young couple were usually escorted to church by a troop of friends.
The priest crowned them with flowers and pronounced a blessing. Maidens
were married beneath a canopy; but this custom was not observed by
widows.
Among the Franks, marriages were not legal unless solemnized in a full
court, where a buckler had three times been lifted up, and three causes
openly tried. Soter, the fifth bishop of Rome, is said to have been the
first who declared marriages illegal unless solemnized by a priest. A
magnificent feast was given in honor of noble marriages, where immense
quantities of wine were drank, and music, dancing, and minstrel songs
enlivened the scene. All the retainers, or vassals, of the feudal lord,
partook of the banquet, which of course was spread in a spacious hall.
The guests sat at table according to their rank; and a huge salt-cellar
marked the dividing line between the noble and the ignoble. Below the
salt-cellar, the food was coarser, and the liquors of a cheap kind.
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