The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
In Spain, a certain company, called Disciplinarians, went through the
streets every Good Friday, with sugar-loaf caps, white gloves and
shoes, and sleeves tied with ribbons of such a color as their ladies
particularly admired. They carried whips of small cords, with bits
of glass fastened on the ends, and when they met a handsome woman,
they began to whip themselves with all violence, insomuch that the
blood spirted on her robes; for which honor she courteously thanked
them. When a lover arrived opposite the balcony of his mistress, he
scourged himself with redoubled fury, while she looked on with proud
complacency, and perhaps rewarded his sufferings with a gracious smile.
Ladies of rank entered the lists of poetry in competition with
troubadours of the other sex. Among these were the countess of
Champagne, countess of Provence, dame Castelossa, the comtesse de
Die, &c. The last-mentioned was beloved by the chevalier d’Adhèmar,
whose courage and magnanimity she celebrated in verses, which the
favored knight always carried in his bosom; and not unfrequently
he entertained a company by singing his lady’s songs in praise of
himself. He died of grief, in consequence of a false report of her
inconstancy. The young comtesse took the veil immediately, and died
the same year in the convent of St. Honoré. Her mother buried her with
her lover, and erected a superb monument to the memory of both. The
countess of Champagne was much celebrated for the manner in which she
presided at one of the Courts of Love. These courts were composed of
ladies summoned to meet together, for the purpose of discussing, in
the most formal and serious manner, “beautiful and subtle questions
of love.” They decided the precise amount of inconstancy which a lady
might forgive, without lowering her own dignity, provided her lover
made certain supplications, and performed certain penances; they took
it into solemn consideration whether a lover was justified, under
any circumstances, in expressing the slightest doubt of his lady’s
fidelity; they laid down definite rules, and ceremonials of behavior,
to be observed by those who wished to be beloved; and gravely discussed
the question whether sentiment, or sight, the heart, or the eyes,
contributed most powerfully to inspire affection.
A young maiden in those days was educated, like her brother, in the
castle of some knight or baron, her father’s friend; and her duties,
like his, were mostly those of personal attendance. She assisted in
dressing her lady, and sought by music and conversation to beguile
her lonely hours. Their learning, in general, was confined to recipes
for cooking, simple medicines, needle-work, the ceremonials of
chivalry, and the prayers of the church. Reading and writing were rare
attainments, both with men and women.
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