The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
In Portugal, women wear the crown, and confer the title of king on
their husbands, as in England. In the interior provinces, they are not
allowed to go out of doors, without permission of parents and husband;
and even their male relations are not allowed to sit beside them in
public places. The church is almost the only place where lovers have a
chance to obtain a sight of them. The Portuguese women do not assume
the names of their husbands, but retain their own. Children bear the
family name of both parents, and are sometimes called by one, sometimes
by the other. It is not common for widows to marry again.
The Italians, like their neighbors of Spain and Portugal, live under
the paralyzing influence of a religion that retains its superstitious
forms, while little of life-giving faith remains. Like them they have
lively passions, are extremely susceptible, and in the general conduct
of life more governed by the impetuosity of impulse than rectitude of
principle. The ladies have less gravity than the Spanish, and less
frivolity than the French, and in their style of dress incline toward
the freedom of the latter. Some of the richest and most commodious
convents of Europe are in Italy. The daughters of wealthy families
are generally bestowed in marriage as soon as they leave these places
of education. These matters are entirely arranged by parents and
guardians, and youth and age are not unfrequently joined together, for
the sake of uniting certain acres of land. But the affections, thus
repressed, seek their natural level by indirect courses. It is a rare
thing for an Italian lady to be without her _cavaliere servente_, or
lover, who spends much of his time at her house, attends her to all
public places, and appears to live upon her smiles. The old maxim of
the Provençal troubadours, that matrimony ought to be no hindrance to
such _liaisons_, seems to be generally and practically believed in
Italy.
Under the powerful aristocracy of Venice, heiresses were bestowed in
marriage by the government, and never allowed to make a foreigner
master of themselves and their wealth.
In Genoa, there are marriage-brokers, who have pocketbooks filled with
the names of marriageable girls of different classes, with an account
of their fortunes, personal attractions, &c. When they succeed in
arranging connections, they have two or three per cent. commission on
the portion. The marriage-contract is often drawn up before the parties
have seen each other. If a man dislikes the appearance or manners of
his future partner, he may break off the match, on condition of paying
the brokerage and other expenses.
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