The Holy Land and SyriaCarpenter, Frank G. (Frank George)
Religion
The Holy Land and Syria
Carpenter, Frank G. (Frank George)
Palestine -- Description and travel; Syria -- Description and travel
And then the houses! All of the Mohammedans have homes so latticed that
the women cannot be seen from the streets. In some cases the windows
are built over the sidewalks, hanging out like cages of wooden network.
This is true even in the new apartment houses which are now going up, as
well as in the huts of the poor, although the latter seldom have windows
except at the back. The ordinary lattice is made of canelike rushes or
sticks, and preparing them is a special trade followed by many. The
rushes are brought in to Damascus on the backs of donkeys, which as they
go fill the streets with their loads.
It behooves the Mohammedan woman to be strict in her conduct. The husband
here has most of the rights, and can divorce his wife, or wives, whenever
he will. He sometimes does so without thinking, and that to his sorrow.
I heard of such a case yesterday. According to the laws of Damascus, if
a man wishes to get rid of his wife he has only to say, “I divorce you!
I divorce you! I divorce you!” and the woman must leave. Once she has
gone she cannot come back as a wife until after she has been married to
someone else. To get around this, an angry husband, relenting and longing
for the dear departed, arranges to marry her to a friend, a dervish,
or some half-crazy man, who for a sum will go through the ceremony of
a wedding and immediately divorce the woman, who can then be married
again to her former husband. In the case referred to the man had a
petty quarrel with his wife, and angrily muttered the words of divorce.
As soon as she had gone he repented, and thereupon brought about her
marriage with an alleged friend, with the understanding that a divorce
was to follow right after the ceremony. The friend, however, refused to
utter the words of divorce, saying, “I like the woman and will keep her
myself,” and so it is at this writing.
Such divorces are always on the part of the husband. As for the women,
they have more difficulty in getting rid of the marriage tie, although
they can do so provided the husband does not perform his duty to them
or give them an equal amount of attention with the other wives of the
family. According to Mohammed every man had the right to four wives, but
the Koran provides that he must spend an equal time with each of them,
and in some places he is required to give each a separate establishment.
During my travels in the Holy Land I have picked up some interesting
stories of marriage and divorce. Every sect has its own customs. The Jews
can divorce easily, and after that they can marry again. The orthodox
Greeks can marry only three times, and some of the Christians are not
allowed a divorce without cause.
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