The task that lay before Mrs. Grey was an uncongenial one, but she
entered upon it cheerfully and hopefully; nobody who knew her, would
need to be told that she went prayerfully, also. She found, as she
expected, intelligent, educated persons in Mr. and Mrs. Thayer, and as
he had retired from business, he had plenty of leisure to consult with
her.
"Things have always gone wrong with us," he said, as soon as the ice
was broken. "But we have at last reached a point when everything must
be placed on a new basis. I have tried my best with the children;
have talked to them by the hour together; have chastised them and
indulged them by turns, but all in vain. And now," he added, his voice
trembling, "I have just caught my eldest boy, Bob, in an act of theft."
"To a large amount?"
"Large for a boy of his age. And what makes it hard is, that I have
been lavish with him in every way. I did not suppose he had a wish
ungratified."
"_Ah!_" said Mrs. Grey, in a tone that declared she was beginning to
see daylight.
"Bob is a good-hearted boy," said Mrs. Thayer, "but his character leans
to shiftlessness. We have tried to tone him up, but if a child is born
without a backbone, what can one do?"
"May I ask in what way you have tried to tone him up?"
"Certainly," replied Mr. Thayer, in a tone of surprise. "We have talked
to him year in and year out."
"Does he like that?"
"No. He yawns in my face."
"Now, you want my honest opinion?"
"We do, most emphatically."
"Then, allow me to say that long talks to children seldom, if ever,
do any good. A single, loving, wise word dropped just at the right
moment, will do infinitely more. But something lies back even of
this. It is parental character. Now I don't want to know from which
of you two your boy gets his bias; perhaps it is from neither. But
he is one of the sort who never should have a promise made him, and
then left unfulfilled. He needs to see, every day, prompt, decisive
action; what he sees will tell more than what he hears. And, I say
it in all kindness, no human being who has his every wish gratified
is in a process of toning up. Such luxury tends to enervate, not to
strengthen."
"I meant it for the best," said Mr. Thayer, with a sigh. "I hoped to
win the lad's heart by kindness. But I see how it has all ended in
failure. Perhaps," he added, after a pause, "you ought to know the
whole story. I am careless about money matters; don't like trouble, and
have never kept any account with Bob. He got into the way of boasting
to other boys how much he had at his disposal; how much more than any
of them, and they dared him to prove that this was the case. In a great
hurry one day I threw some loose bills into a drawer, forgot them, and
perhaps never should have thought of them again, but a good friend of
mine came and told me that Bob was exhibiting a larger sum at school
than he thought it likely I had given him; and then the whole thing
came out."
"What did you do?"
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