Henry Street Settlement (New York, N.Y.); Poor -- New York (State) -- New York
The lack of a normal emotional outlet is of consequence, and as a result
astute physiognomists often recognize what they term the “institution
look.” Maggie, an intelligent girl, who has since given abundant evidence
of spontaneity and spirit, spent a short time in an excellent orphanage.
She told me the other day, and wept as she told it, that she had met no
unkindness there, but remembered with horror that when they arose in the
morning the “orphans” waited to be told what to do; and that feeling was
upon her every hour of the day. In fact, Maggie had stirred me to make
arrangements to take her out of the institution because, when I brought
her for a visit to the settlement, she stood at the window the entire
afternoon, wistfully watching the children play in our back yard, and
not joining them because no one had told her that she might.
One is reluctant to speak only of the disadvantages of institutional
life, for there are many children rescued from unfortunate family
conditions who testify to the good care they received, and who, in after
life, look back upon the orphanage as the only home they have known.
For some children, doubtless, such care will continue to be necessary,
but the conservative and rigid administration can be softened, and the
management and their charges delivered out of the rut into which they
have fallen, and from the tyranny of rules and customs which have no
better warrant than that they have always existed.
Perhaps these illustrations are not too insignificant to record.
Happening to pass through a room in an asylum when the dentist was paying
his monthly visit, I saw a fine-looking young lad about to have a sound
front tooth extracted because he complained of toothache. No provision
had been made for anything but the extraction of teeth. An offer to have
the boy given proper treatment outside the institution was not accepted,
but it needed no more than this to insure better dentistry in his case
and in the institution in future. The reports stated that corporal
punishment was not administered. When a little homesick lad displayed
his hands, swollen from paddling, a request for an investigation, and
that I be privileged to hear the inquiry, put a stop, and I am assured
a permanent one, to this form of discipline. These are the more obvious
disadvantages of institutional life for the child. The more subtle and
dangerous are the curbing of initiative and the belittling of personality.
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