Man may talk as much as he pleases; the spoken word exerts no potent
influence over a genuine woman. So long as her emotions are strongly
affected, the whole line of argumentation to which the word gives
expression seems to her but a piece of academical man-invented
pedantry--the learned twaddle of the schools. She inclineth not her
ear to _reasons_; she considers them an intolerable imposition, an
encroachment upon the realm of her sentiment and the supremacy of her
feminine intuition. Her logic is passion; she feels but her mood,
her interest; she sees things and relations but as they regard her
personally. Whether there is an injustice to others implied, and what
is the true import of things _per se_, all that is rarely comprehended
and retained by a woman where her interest or her antipathy comes into
play. In the entire course of the clearest and concisest exposition
the fair listener is occupied only with her excitement and opposition,
and never with the subject in question and its importance. The spoken
word, as soon as she is required to acknowledge its office as bearer
and representative of spirit, to value its absolute potency, is to her
but empty sound. At the last she yields to pathos--to emphasis, to
oratory, as she might do in a play. The dialectics affect her possibly
by their eloquence, diction, and plastic qualities, rarely by the force
of conviction. When all his arguments are exhausted, and the speaker
looks forward to the effect for the sake of which he has marshalled
all his rhetorical art and logic, and taken his eloquence into both
hands as it were, Madam comes back to the same fatal point, to the same
nonsense from whence she started; and all the forces of rhetoric, all
the concentrated reasoning goes for nothing.
Now the man’s temper rises, and he waxes indignant; a piece of copper
is finally persuaded by the hammer to become a tea-kettle; words can be
engraved on stone and steel, why not upon the _tabula rasa_, the blank
daguerreotype-plate of a woman’s mind?
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